Anyone else feel this way?

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For some reason it really bothers me when someone says something bad about something I like (even just like a song or something). I feel mad and kind of threatened by it. Not sure if this is due to AS or something else but does anyone else feel like this?

I think its common for people on the spectrum to tend to relate to themselves in terms of their interests. We get our identities from the things we like, or even just the things we are accustomed to. I once cared for an autistic girl who had a tantrum when the doctor changed her medication from one large pill to two smaller ones equalling the same dosage. That large pill was part of who she was, how she identified with herself, and by changing that it was like she was having her identity taken away and replaced with another.

If you personify your likes and interests like that, I could see it making you feel criticized or attacked when someone speaks negatively about them. I'm not sure if I do that or not; have never thought about it.

What do you think; is that a possibility?

Oh goodness, yes. When Tim Burton and Johnny Depp's collaborative movies were my special interest, I would almost be brought to tears and fly into a rage whenever anyone said anything negative about their movies or them as people. Even though I am no longer obsessed with them, it still irritates me whenever people say bad things about them, particularly if said people are misinformed (which they usually are).

Speaking of getting upset over my special interests being criticized, I used to be obsessed with My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic, but I forced myself to stop liking it after too many people criticized it and even directly made fun of me for enjoying it. I couldn't take it anymore so I decided that losing it as a special interest was better than being driven crazy by all the hate it was getting. The same thing happened when I was a teenager and was obsessed with the anime Naruto.

That just means you're a human being with an opinion of your own.