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Rossall
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25 Apr 2025, 8:25 am

Has anyone else used them? I have tried and failed to get a therapist locally so I thought I'd give them a go. The fee is £60 weekly.

https://www.betterhelp.com/#


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25 Apr 2025, 8:39 am

What is the 60 quid for


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25 Apr 2025, 8:41 am

Presumably for the therapists fees. If it's crap I will cancel it.


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25 Apr 2025, 8:41 am

Private healthcare fees can be quite costly.



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25 Apr 2025, 8:44 am

Oh right
I just looked at the site

Have you ever looked at Qwell
https://www.qwell.io/signup/where-do-yo ... FQEALw_wcB

It's free and NHS but it is all done via email I think


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25 Apr 2025, 8:44 am

Rossall wrote:
Presumably for the therapists fees. If it's crap I will cancel it.


It was 45 quid when I just checked


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25 Apr 2025, 8:53 am

That looks like the Samaritans site. [email protected] They're helpful but it's a different person each time so you can't build any kind of relationship and trust with them.


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25 Apr 2025, 8:57 am

Yeah I know what you mean there
Plus I think it's better to say things out loud as well


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25 Apr 2025, 9:04 am

I'm just giving Qwell a go so let's see how that goes. Cheers bb.


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25 Apr 2025, 9:08 am

OK cool


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25 Apr 2025, 9:27 am

Qwell have just told me they don't have chats when someone's been drinking so that's a non starter.


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25 Apr 2025, 9:29 am

Oh right :lol:

I wonder why though


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25 Apr 2025, 10:21 am

Therapy doesn't work well when someone is intoxicated. Too hard to build connections that are authentic



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25 Apr 2025, 10:24 am

Pink Zeppelin wrote:
Therapy doesn't work well when someone is intoxicated. Too hard to build connections that are authentic

I'm not drunk though. I never get drunk. just 'relaxed'.

Anyway, I've got a therapist through Betterhelp.

Your Upcoming Live Chat Session

Your Therapist: Anita Burton

Session Date: Thursday, 1 May, 2025

Starts at: 3:35pm BST
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25 Apr 2025, 12:56 pm

I got therapy at BetterHelp for some months last year. It was wonderful! I had to stop when I ran out of money. If you don't care for the first therapist you get, there's a button to click and a screen comes up where you pick another. No explanations. My first was young and baby oriented; I needed somebody old like me. Done, in no time flat. So much good help and guidance received - I was looking for help in practical matters.

All the very best to you in your endeavours.



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25 Apr 2025, 1:03 pm

That's really good

I'll keep Better Help in my bookmarks I think
It's good to know there's help out there isn't it


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