My best friend. I've known her for almost 6 years now. I consider her my best friend though and she considers me hers and all her friends know me because she talks about me a lot and says how she misses me and all.
Where things get weird:
She lives in another state so mostly we talk on the phone or face time. She's living with her brother and she doesn't talk to me so much when shes in the house. So I will talk to her on her way to work (about 20 minutes and some) and on her way home. Sometimes we will facetime when she's actually home. It just seems for being "best friends" I get blown off more for her other friends that according to her, she doesn't like talking to as much as me, but they are her friends. She rarely calls me when she's on her way to school because she has her friend in the car, she doesn't call me during her breaks anymore because she talks to her friends at school. I talk to her pretty much when she's just driving. So when she's driving to see a friend, and she is driving to and from work. What I don't get is that when she is home if we are on face time, she will get a call from let's say "Butch" and she will look at the phone and be like "okay goodnight I'm gonna talk to Butch" She's interested in him and they're dating now. What I don't get is that.. she can talk to him when she's home but never has time to talk to me. On top of that now that Butch is calling her after work I may talk to her for a few minutes until she goes. Which pisses me off. She see's these people they live around her and she rather talk to them over me when I can ONLY talk to her on the damn phone?!
I remember a few years ago when she was in between jobs and moved in with her boyfriend she NEVER called me and never had time to answer my calls.
She doesn't respond to text messages much on her days off of school because she's usually busy with her friends or with her family, but... honestly if I am her best friend I would think there would be more time to talk to me besides when she's driving to a damn destination.
Then I have another friend. Who I talk to usually all the time, but she's not even talking to me now for the past month because I don't want to spend my limited funds on a f**king cochet class and I want to buy a guitar and go back to learning an instrument, which I haven't been able to do for the past 6 years. Instead of being understanding she's pissed I won't spend my limited funds for something she wants to do, meanwhile she's dropped almost ten thousand over needless things. Just the week before this she spent 2200 on bathroom upgrades she doesn't need at all!
20 Nov 2012, 1:42 pm
