PROBLEMS IN COMMUNICATION

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Hello everyone……I have never shared with anyone what I used to think in my own head…..But I always felt happy thinking in my own mind…….I think in pictures and though I also feel sympathy love for others but find very difficult to express them in words. The world inside my mind and the real world is very very different however…..First of all in the real world there are people shouting at you telling you to do smthng which you think you can do at your own when you like to do it….then there arepeople around you who are talking among themselves and you feel as if you have got nothing to do but still you have to be there because it’s a rule…..similarly there are a number of other rules which you don’t know at all but you must follow them……So better to keep quiet and remain just where you are so that you may not be shouted at…… These were all my experience in primary schooling….I must tell you all may be we cannot express our ourselves….because we don’t know the appropriate time to do so…However unless and until we make plans for ourselves how can we lead a satisfying life? I must mention that I am alsoquite poorly coordinated…..not wanting to walk or run or cycle…..Travelling through trains have particularly been my problem because of the large noises encountered there. Then there are your parents spending lakhs of money on your college fees……..siblings expecting good results…..but again the social situations experienced there are the same proffessors asking questions directly to you……. Peers talking mostly amongthemselves about which you have no clues……the outside world is much more difficult similarly…..rulesfor traffic signals…..rules for everything which I don’t know…WHAT CAN I DO ANYONE PLEASE HELP.

I cannot offer advice, I can only sympathize. I also do not understand many of societies rules. I feel that anything I do or say may not be right, thus I do and say little around others. I talk in a monotone voice often and thus can't adequately display emotions. I can't always do correct facial expressions and often forget to smile in cases where it would have been appropriate. The only people I really talk to are my siblings when their not talking amongst each other or their friends. I do not think in pictures, but I think in monologues and constant daydreams which I do not express to others. The only time I can speak effectively is through writing which I have only done on this site. This site is the only place I have shared my true thought and feelings and be thankful that it exits. I am sorry that I could offer no advice, but I do understand.