Don't understand!!

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Why do I suddenly keep thinking I might be transgender- I'm not even sure where this thought came from other than that I began to relate to make characters and find it easier to write in their pov. Why on earth this would mean I was transgender I don't know. I am not particularly Girly but that's just me and I do like some Girly things. I just started thinking about this, and I know it's anxiety because I often get feelings in related areas- at the moment I keep getting a numbing feeling in my groin- coming from nothing other than my imagination.
Why do I have to get these thoughts? I am so good at making myself think there is something wrong with me. I can't tell myself to stop being stupid this time! I thought that was the case when I realised I was attracted to girls- well sexualised images of girls- composited to nothing towards any boys. I am just getting really confused, because last time it did turn out, or so I think, to be true and I don't want it to be again! I can't stand this!! I want my head to shut up, get a life and leave me alone!
Is there a reason I think up things like this? Is it something I could just think up? Please help me, I'm so scared and confused!! ! Life is already too damn hard!

I was hoping for women to help you.

Me - i think most women are kind of bi anyway.

Hi, PixieXW, I'm greatly influenced by a teacher who mentioned the following...
1. Your sex (male/female) is the identity that you are born with. Your gender (male/female) is the identity that you determine yourself, even though most people's gender is identical to their sex. Society plays a very significant role in reinforcing the belief that your gender must be identical to your sex, but you don't necessarily have to conform to society.
2. Most people are born bi, but as people age, they eventually develop a preference for gay love or straight love.

Could be pure OCD. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Purely_Obsessional_OCD