Still self conscious about the ONE thing wrong with my body

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And 26.2 million for "big breast porn."

Guys find good tits sexier than small ones. It's a fact.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=daAesJKIUzc[/youtube]

Sure. But that's a much smaller difference between those two big numbers than you'd expect, right? (Pun intended.)


You're replacing guys' actual opinions with your assumptions about their opinions.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zs-wJQzWhQg[/youtube]The Booby scen from the Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumia!

You have to stop judging yourself based on how you appear. I promise you that big breasts will not make you feel better about yourself. That's not because I think you'll have the same insecurities as me, but because you will most likely find some other problem with your body. You have to stop worrying about what guys think. If every guy thought that jumping off a cliff was sexy, would you do it? You need to be happy on your own terms and f**k what anyone else says. But, if you are certain that you only want larger breasts just for you and nobody else, then fine, but you need to learn the difference.

Yeah, its seriously not a big deal. If you and your boyfriend aren't long term--why go so far out of your way.

If you and your boyfriend are longterm--you both will be old and wrinkled before long. You guys better be thinking more about whats within. You find everything else right with your body?

Talk about a luxury of perception most people don't have now a days.

Some being more well endowed than someone else is not going to determine quality--you said in other posts you have to be attracted to someone you date, thats fair and probably what you expect from other people--you also say you believe your bf is attracted to you--its time to quit and stop focusing on it before the paranoia causes him to leave. I know this is a vent and i'm not trying to shoot down your insecurities, but you need to know that sometimes venting on something (even if you yourself are scared its possibly an irrationality and choose to vent here instead of to him) can cause you to dwell on the negative.

Who would care if they had a six-pack, a large rack or a pretty face--if they're with the person who loves and accepts them for who they are.. and they BOTH find each other attractive as the way that they are.

Would you ask your bf to change anything about himself? Then he needs to get with the program. Preference is one thing, but someone who doesn't accept us as we are isn't someone we need to be with.

The truth is it does not matter one iota what other people prefer, nor do people think what an amazing guy someone is based on how hot he's with OR rather they rarely/seldomly do. I don't think Kanye West is a great guy and while Kim Kardashian is with him and is/was considered one of the most attractive women, her quality is not that high. I am taking these viewpoints from things you posted--and things that in time I hope you let go of.

Last edited by Greatsharkbite on 12 Feb 2013, 4:52 pm, edited 2 times in total.

Maybe your bf should get penis enlargment surgery because you said he has a small noodle. Perhaps 13 1/2 inches should suffice!

I noticed the OP's boob size continues to be discussed in length but nothing about the size, color and style of her nipples and how they fit into the overall package. That's a much bigger factor for boob attractiveness in my opinion.

Oh sure - give her something NEW to freak out about... too light, too dark, areolae too large or misshapen... what about what most women have which is one slightly larger or smaller than the other? Maybe if we push this into a full-blown neurosis she'll finally see a therapist about it!

They're small (maybe an inch and a quarter across soft with areola) and pink,right in the middle. I guess my boobs aren't saggy/don't point at the ground.

I love boobies both great and small!

heh... makes me want to rewrite the song "All Things Bright and Beautiful" but all about boobies.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_chMCdwWruA&feature=youtube_gdata_player[/youtube]

^^^ And that's how you grow large watermelons XD

darn there goes MY peace of mind .


(this was all a jest with a compliment on top btw i'm surprised you took it seriously.)

Edit: Never mind. I don't think anything will make a difference.