getting a diagnosis or not?

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beer1982
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19 Mar 2013, 6:34 am

Hi there
I might be an Aspie (various online test and my own doctor indicates that). My own doctor suggest that I should get testet/screened. But I am uncertain if it is a good move.
On one hand it would be good to get it so I know why I feel different. On the other hand, I do not know if I will regret it later because I (via a diagnosis) will close some doors for me.

What is yout advice and have you got any bad or good experience with or without getting a diagnose?



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23 Mar 2013, 1:00 pm

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23 Mar 2013, 1:37 pm

As far as I know the only doors that close on you if you are an Aspie are the ones that you close on yourself, I have known that I was an Aspie since I was very young and I have known that I have always been different. In my life so far I have sang in my regional choir for the state, played the trombone in front of my town while marching, and went on several out of state field trips. Now to most people these things aren't a big deal to accomplish, however I have terrible stage fright, and I hate leaving my comfort zone which is my town so for me to have been able to sing in front of people from all around my state, play an instrument in front of the entire town, and even leave the state to places that I have never been to without my family for support is quite an accomplishment for me. Getting a diagnosis shouldn't be all that life changing and even though it sounds like it will change a lot, it will only change what you let it change. I have had my hard times with Asperger's Syndrome I am having one right now and they are bound to happen, everyone has rough patches in their life. I have had times where I feel on top of the world and that I can do anything, and times where I feel like I can't even leave my house. Knowing I have Asperger's didn't change my outlook on life and it still doesn't, I can attribute certain things to having Asperger's, but I know that I can work past things I need to, I mean not everything about having Asperger's is bad.



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27 Mar 2013, 3:09 am

Thank you for you advice. I think I will stick to my plan and visit the psychiatrist. My normal doctor thinks that I might be an Aspie but he could not say anything for certainty since it was out of his expertise.
I also took the Aspie-quiz:
Your Aspie score: 139 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 53 of 200
You are very likely an Aspie

I know that there is some amount of uncertainty for that test. But I guess that I have a mild form for Asperger