Wishy washy, I don't know what to do

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And I thought this had been resolved. I was wrong. One day he's calling saying how bad he misses me and wants me to come over or text him and other things, and then the next he's telling me that I'm nuts and he doesn't want anything to do with me, etc. Tonight, he inboxed me on fb and told me that I talk too much. Now, I hadn't said anything to him since yesterday and then I told him that his ego is just too big and he won't find anybody as long as he's like that. After he told me that I talk too much I pointed out that he inboxed me and I hadn't said s**t to him and then he got quiet. He didn't even want to talk about that two headed Siamese twin girl that we had talked about the other day. She seems like she's going to be able to live longer than most of them do, she's in her late teens now I think.

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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
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Maybe just cut him off an extra couple days until he makes up his mind? If he's waffling like that, I'd hold out until he made a decision, and then hold him to it. Waffling drives me crazy, because it's not making a stand either way.

I'm at the point now where I just want to be friends with him and that's all. I just don't want any of his crazy wishy washiness cause he's just too unpredictable. We go months without any contact and then one day he's calling saying he misses me and wants to take me on some vacation or something and then the next week he's just talking to me about food and local gossip and stuff, and then out of the blue he comes up with some crazy business about my politics being all wrong or I talk too much (he contacts me to tell me I talk to much lol) or all mad because he thinks I've put some spell on him, etc. I just do not need that.

I told him I just want to be friends, that when it came down to a choice I pick my husband but I honestly do like being his friend (even without benefits - or maybe just the occasional benefit because my husband has just lost all interest in it) but he's just too crazy for even that. I may have hurt his feelings the other day when I just got fed up at how he thought he was too good to go out with a single friend of mine because he didn't think she was pretty enough. I told him that while yes, he's very good looking, and very, very good at doing quite a few things, his massive ego is entirely unacceptable and nobody likes that and that he's just not ever going to be able to keep any girl around if he keeps acting like he's all that. I told him his ego makes him actually kind of unattractive. I explained that it doesn't take away from his looks but it takes away from girls being able to actually like him.

I just think I'm not gonna talk to him for a good little while.

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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
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