Blocked by girl I like on facebook

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There is this girl at school I like. We are actually pretty good friends, but a few hours ago she blocked me because of some messages I sent.

The messages simply said that I feel I am being treated different then her other friends, and the main problem I was having was she lets other friends hang out with me more then she allows me to hang out with her.

I have been a bit obsessive, and we agreed if I'm ever not giving her the space she needs, she would inform me, I would listen, and give her the space she deserves. But instead of telling me she needs more space, she simply blocked me, meaning it could be another issue.

She's a wonderful person, one in a million, the only type of girl I've met like her.

I was going to talk to her tomorrow about it, apologize, promise to leave her alone as long as she wants, and tell her she's a great friend that I don't want to lose.

1. Should I tell her this tomorrow?

2. Did I do anything wrong? I mean, I don't like feeling like I'm being treated different then other people, who would? And she was told that enough times. All I was doing was telling her how I feel about her behavior. But yeah have I made any mistakes?

For now, I would recommend NOT talking to her. Maybe say hi in the hallway, but nothing more UNLESS she initiates the conversation FIRST. In a true friendship, both sides work equally hard, and I suspect you've been doing most of the work up till now, and she's tired of you. So give her a little time NOT to be tired of you.

Ouch...now that's a pain in the @$$. I'm curious. Have you been hanging out other friends beside the girl that blocked you on Facebook? If so, do you feel happy about that?

You're f****d. Call it quits with her and move on.

"Blocked by girl I like on facebook"

Oh no, it's all over! You're done mate. Just give up!

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I have no idea tbh. Good luck!

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Oh wait, nvm. Say this:

"it really hurt when you blocked me and I have no idea why it even happened. If I've crossed the line in some way or you just don't want to hang out anymore, please let me know. I'm confused and hurt and angry and I'd really like to know what just happened. I'll give you your space but please don't leave me in the dark"

in text-form 'cause you'll probably f**k it up in person. Good luck!

PS: Ask family for advice. NT's are usually better at this stuff anyway.

Last edited by The_Perfect_Storm on 11 Jul 2013, 12:23 pm, edited 1 time in total.

You're way too clingy btw. Stop trying to dictate the friendship.

Clearly you're not exactly her best friend anyway. Frustrating, but nothing you can really do to switch things around in the short term (probly).

If she blocked you on Facebook over not wanting to listen to you then she is not a wonderful person! Find a girl who will respect you!

This.

Seconded. Someone who does that with no explanation has some serious issues of her own, that you probably do not want to get involved with, and I do know whereof I speak--this happened with a friend of mine. By the time the girl in question blocked him, her IRL behaviors had made it painfully clear that she had a LOT of problems. You may not have seen them yet in this girl--and consider yourself fortunate that you haven't had to. It caused my friend a lot of unnecessary heartache.

Even if it hurts now, do your best to drop it and move on, ASAP.

This may be a week old thread, but I do agree with the person who said you were being a little clingy when you get upset that she is hanging out with others more than she is with you. At least that is how she will see it. If this was repeatedly brought up, she probably won't like it either.
However, blocking you out of nowhere is inconsiderate of her considering there was no explanation. She will give you some
excuses to justify her behaviour, but there isn't much that you can do about it.
It's a delicate situation to be in as a teenager, so the best cause of action will likely be to ignore her or just casually say hi once in a while in the hallway at school.
Next time you have a girl friend you like, I recommend asking her to hang out and not complaining when she says no. From a friendship perspective, she will say no a lot, but will find time to hang out once in a while. From a dating perspective however, no means no.

Dude i know how you feel i liked a girl for 6 years then she got married and her husband wont let me talk to her. But let me tell you that you need to find someone who likes you back not someone who tolerates you. I know you think she is the bees knees i am telling you have been where you are. And if i can tell you anything it is to look at your relationship and see it as all the ways she has treated you. if she is really a good friend to you. Because no matter how much you hope she will spontaneously fall in love with you, she wont. find someone who does love you.

I second this advice. You care about her so you don't need to ignore her when she passes by. But, you need to respect her wishes. If you back off a bit, she may unblock you soon enough. Give it a few days and see. There will come an opportunity to talk about this appropriately. I think you have the right to know why she's upset with you since you both seem to be good friends.

Don't be tempted in calling, emailing, etc

^Thirded...and I know that won't be easy, but for your own sake, yes, back off a bit.

If she is the nice person you see her as, she will eventually talk to you about this. Give it some time.