Abusive Sociopathic stepdad stalking me online again!

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03 Aug 2013, 3:48 am

Well looks like after he was banned for quite a while hes gotten unbanned and decides to stalk me again and harass me on an mmo after logging off he went on facebook asking my sister for my cell phone number my sister texted me this morning about it all luckily she told him on facebook she doesnt have my phone number. My stepdad has an abusive controlling mentality he has been classified as a sociopath and I am tired of his crap. I just dont get why he wants to waste his time trying to harass me and abuse me even more than usual is it because he heard Im living on my own and back on my own two feet and he cant hold me down anymore? I am really angry and annoyed right now so ill try my best refraiming from cussing.


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03 Aug 2013, 4:51 am

If he gets to you in this way, he wins.

Don't let him win.



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03 Aug 2013, 8:56 pm

Would he try to physically hurt you? I like you! Stay safe.


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03 Aug 2013, 8:57 pm

Have you explained this to the mods at your MMO?

Do you have a lawyer who could do it for you?



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03 Aug 2013, 10:35 pm

Hes been banned before for this hell get banned again. I think he feels the need to harass me because he cant control me abuse me and keep me oppressed and Im on my own and things are going good for me.


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04 Aug 2013, 10:22 pm

Do they have block lists? Could you change character's names?



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05 Aug 2013, 12:26 am

Sociopaths need to feel on top. If he knows your Asperger’s (or in his mind Autistic) but seem to be coping with life better than him (even if it's in his own mind). His sociopathic needs will be to run you down to a station below his own. These people have a compulsive need to stand on other people with extreme prejudice so that you hit rock bottom and stay there. Very dangerous and hurtful people.

If things get worse, make the local police aware of the situation. You’re not asking for action at this point; just make them aware that a potential situation exists. This way if anything does happen, or if you submit a complaint in the future, they have on record your pre-emptive concerns. This is worth a lot in the event of police action and/or a court hearing.



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05 Aug 2013, 8:00 pm

GregCav wrote:
Sociopaths need to feel on top. If he knows your Asperger’s (or in his mind Autistic) but seem to be coping with life better than him (even if it's in his own mind). His sociopathic needs will be to run you down to a station below his own. These people have a compulsive need to stand on other people with extreme prejudice so that you hit rock bottom and stay there. Very dangerous and hurtful people.

If things get worse, make the local police aware of the situation. You’re not asking for action at this point; just make them aware that a potential situation exists. This way if anything does happen, or if you submit a complaint in the future, they have on record your pre-emptive concerns. This is worth a lot in the event of police action and/or a court hearing.
Yeah he knows my aspergers and ways of trying to control me via routines and such, however I have read his patterns he is predictable I just remove all things from te picture he cannot control me with I also plan 3 steps ahead on what hes going to do next. I just know this if he contiinues to pursue me he will fall into my trap Im not gonna bother warning him any more I warned him last time and apparently he didnt learn his lesson so Ill let him destroy himself with the possibility of him facing jail time if he continues.


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05 Aug 2013, 8:00 pm

And yes i have had my characters name changed and he figured out who I was i just will have to report all the texts and threats he says to me and hell go bye bye. I wont be surprised if he sends death threats to me he does have a gun and he did point a gun at me once when I lived with him. Your absolutly right about sociopaths keeping people rock bottom to keep control of them, he did that to me all the time by taking all my money and threatening to kick me out of the house on the street with no money if I didnt do what he said he would also take my posessions away from me that i hold dearly to control me as well during my time I have learned his patterns and learned to take my possessions and hide them and take them with me as my sister rescued me and got me out of there! Ever since hes gotten desperate and more aggressive violent and wreckless!


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05 Aug 2013, 8:16 pm

How awful.As if life is not hard enough,then there are a**holes to make it even tougher.


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05 Aug 2013, 8:25 pm

Misslizard wrote:
How awful.As if life is not hard enough,then there are a**holes to make it even tougher.
No kidding I dont know why such a**holes like that exist let alone why my mom stays with him I have tried to save her from him but she doesnt want to be saved shes addicted to being controlled by him shes in a codependant relationship in an abusive relationship with my stepdad he has a controlling alpha male mentality. Luckily i live about 1700 miles away from him and hes usually all talk but if he decides to be stupid enough to fly over to look for me and find me I am afraid I will have to defend myself and it wont be pretty given if the cops dont reach him first and arrest him. I doubt hell go that far but you never know I plan and prepare just in case he does.


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