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LonelyJar
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07 Oct 2013, 10:16 pm

At public gatherings where attendees aren't required to sit, I tend to just eat and pace around the room. Does anyone have tips on how to engage in small talk?



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07 Oct 2013, 11:18 pm

hiya LJ :) welcome to the club 8)
have you not before met anybody who shared similar interests? if you have, had you not at least exchanged a few words on your mutual fave subject/s?



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08 Oct 2013, 4:28 pm

auntblabby wrote:
hiya LJ :) welcome to the club 8)
have you not before met anybody who shared similar interests? if you have, had you not at least exchanged a few words on your mutual fave subject/s?


I don't really have any friends; the closest thing I had to friends in recent memory was a support group I attended in college for credit, and even then, I haven't spoken with my classmates since the last class session. I'm not very outgoing or sociable, so I don't like talking to other people, partly because I won't think we have common interests. I'm also too shy to find and talk to other people who seem to like what I like; joining this website to post these comments is a big step for me.

P. S.: Sorry for the late response!



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08 Oct 2013, 5:07 pm

^^^
no worries, LJ :) you are among thousands of virtual friends now :)



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08 Oct 2013, 7:18 pm

Welcome! :)
I am in the same situation as you.

Check out this video from Alex:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=az8vpzxZkj4[/youtube]