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Zeddy
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06 Jan 2014, 11:41 am

My father suffers from heart problems for a very long time now and lately its going worse with him. He absolutly refuses to talk about his feelings and vents his anger and his rage on both on me and my mother and threatens to leave home pretty much everytime. Tried talking to my sister if we can convince him to find help to talk about his feelings but she thinks he's doing fine and refuses to help me. My brother isnt the type to talk about feelings and my other sister also thinks he's fine.

Got a feeling its gonna explode sooner or later. I really dont know what i can do about it. I hate to see him like this. He's a good person but i cant deal with his behaviour anymore. I want to help him but i dont know how. Makes me feel depressed. Wish my life wasnt like this got a ton of problems already in my life. :cry:



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06 Jan 2014, 11:43 am

I'm sorry you are dealing with this.

Are there any other family members who might be willing to hear your side, and try to get help for him?


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06 Jan 2014, 12:21 pm

The only person i can think of that might be able to help is my girlfriend but he went apeshit at her a few days ago. I see a shrink currently ill try mailing him see if he can help me out one way or another.



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06 Jan 2014, 1:49 pm

Good idea--at this point, professional intervention might be warranted. I hope things work out.


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He acts without unnecessary speech,
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