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Why is it that everything bad always happens to me?
I can't ever have anything good and when something bad happens it devastates me. It doesn't matter if I'm bullied or talked down to but if I accuse my attackers and confront them then I'm instantly in the wrong and should be chained and hung. Before you suggest telling a teacher or another figure of equal power, don't because I would still be in the wrong because no one listens to my side of anything. I doubt even here I will be understood and acknowledged. I hate myself almost to a daily occurrence and since you may ask Ive thought about suicide multiple times. At home there seems to be the same thing people don't get it and they want me to become magically happy which there's no point to. I'm nonexistent in my school and society so I could disappear and no one would care. It doesn't matter how I feel or am but only that the rest of the masses are happy.

Everything bad doesn't happen to you, 'cause a lot of it keeps happening to me, too.

I wish I could tell you there's an answer to your communication problem, but if there is, I haven't found it yet. Neurotypical people and Autistic people have brains whose thought processes take totally different tracks toward problem solving and we interpret almost everything in life in completely different ways. What seems rational and logical to you will seem pointless and silly to them and vice-versa. We're like two different species, thus the term Wrong Planet..

I'm sorry to hear that you're having such a rough time, but remember, everything in life goes in cycles. Things don't stay bad all the time, even though it may feel that way when you're in the middle of a bad patch. Humans may always be a frustrating mystery, but life doesn't suck all the time. Things will get better, you just have to ride out the sh*t storm.

Find a good Wing Chun Kung Fu school. I don't know why, but it seems to make everything better.

I agree about finding a Kung fu school. It will get you fit and build your confidence. That will help in any situation.

I agree about finding a Kung fu school. It will get you fit and build your confidence. That will help in any situation.