Nothing to look forward in life

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Heisenburg98
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14 Feb 2014, 10:48 am

Ok so I am 15 year old prepubescent male and I really hate my self
I feel like I have nothing to look forward to in life and I'm just there... I mean I look forward to things that some people might consider minor like new episodes of tv shows or new video games how do I cope? Please help me



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14 Feb 2014, 11:34 am

i'm betting you're actually pubescent rather than prepubescent if you're 15.
You're going through puberty, right?

More to the point though: you have your whole life ahead of you and there's a lot out there to explore and enjoy.

I'm nearly 20 years older than you, my life currently sucks, but still, I look forward to it being better.
To finding a lady to be mine.
To partying and dancing to music.
To becoming self-supporting.
To sex & drugs & rock 'n roll.
To games.
To interesting conversations with people.
To traveling the world again.

That's just the tip of the iceberg, my young uncertain friend.
You haven't taken your life out of the box and played with it yet.
That's what you have to look forward to.

In the meantime, you have free food, shelter, and toys.
Enjoy that while it lasts. :)



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14 Feb 2014, 12:39 pm

Heisenburg98 wrote:
Ok so I am 15 year old prepubescent male and I really hate my self
I feel like I have nothing to look forward to in life and I'm just there... I mean I look forward to things that some people might consider minor like new episodes of tv shows or new video games how do I cope? Please help me


All I can tell you is that 15 way by far the worst age for me and I know how you feel. I found once I got a part time job (at 16) and met some normal human beings things improved substantially. At 15, you feel like you are ready to take the first steps to adulthood but are still treated like a child everywhere you go.



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14 Feb 2014, 6:54 pm

I am 22 and I feel a similar way about life. I feel like there is no ultimate goal that I am heading towards in life. I kinda have this idea that there should be some type of grand goal in life that we all work towards. There are so many possibilites for what to do in life. How do you know what to do? I guess just do your best to find the most enjoyable things in life and hope for the best.



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14 Feb 2014, 6:55 pm

I am 22 and I feel a similar way about life. I feel like there is no ultimate goal that I am heading towards in life. I kinda have this idea that there should be some type of grand goal in life that we all work towards. There are so many possibilites for what to do in life. How do you know what to do? I guess just do your best to find the most enjoyable things in life and hope for the best.



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15 Feb 2014, 4:21 am

ErbyDerby wrote:
I am 22 and I feel a similar way about life. I feel like there is no ultimate goal that I am heading towards in life. I kinda have this idea that there should be some type of grand goal in life that we all work towards. There are so many possibilites for what to do in life. How do you know what to do? I guess just do your best to find the most enjoyable things in life and hope for the best.


This life is a test.
It is only a test.
Had this been a real life, you would have been given instructions on where to go and what to do.

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