I just got thrown out of a funeral

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I didn't even do anything. Her daughter who goes to AUBURN blames me and now get this. The husband is a cop. the place was crawling with them. Every cop in three counties was there. So she sends to Navy guys to tell me to go. Navy boys. Please. But I said ok, I'll go. The husband told me last night I could go. Then that little b***h said I had to leave.

A new low. i'm so ashamed. i've never been thrown out of a funeral before.

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I'm sorry this happened to you.

I thought they were going to let you talk, weren't you asking for advice about what to say?

Is it really wise for you to be in a room full of cops, anyway?

Why not have your own private little service for your friend in your own home? Your friends family obviously has a problem with you. Whether their feelings towards you are deserved or not, they do not want you around. I understand she was your friend and you miss her. The grief her family is going through, though, is unimaginable. Please, do not do anything that could potentially exacerbate their pain. BTW, pretty much anything you do at this point that, other than leaving them alone, could exacerbate their pain. The last thing YOU need is a problem with a next door neighbor who is a cop.

And speaking of you, whether some of the events of the last couple of months are confabulated, or totally accurate, you obviously have more than anyone could handle alone on your plate. Perhaps you should consider getting a thorough medical check-up and maybe a little counseling. Also, if the girl scouts are still selling cookies, I have personally found both the thin mints and the samoas quite therapeutic.

I just reread the thread and saw I missed the part where you said you didn't get to do it. I think that person's idea about planting a tree for her is a good one. Also what VIcky said.

When my grandma (my mom's mom) died in 2006, we had been living in this house for maybe six months. My mom planted a tree in her memory. When my dad's dog died in 1970 (an earlier dog from the one you may remember died a couple years ago) he buried her in the backyard of the house he was living in, and planted a tree. Also, OOM is pagan, is there a ritual you can do to ease Suzette's transition to the other side, OOM?