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Theamazinggeek
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16 Mar 2018, 2:04 am

Every night after work and my lil workout i sit on the couch tired but satisfied i fed the lunch n dinner rushes ( im a cook)

Yet i sit with the singles depression. Its been 3 years. Since my last relationship
Every week i hit a local singles bar. Im over looked there. im cheery n happy but no one approaches

I hang with group aspies. Im trying to get em out. There finally open to the idea of self improvement. But there reluctant.( Example: im scouting wp to see if it safe enough for them to join n post)They call me the king of nerds. Im somehow there leader. How i dont know.

Point is im down each night.


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Sarahsmith
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16 Mar 2018, 2:57 pm

Just because you havent been in a relationship for 3 years doesnt mean you will never date again. And remember you have to approach people at bars and not just wait for them to come over. Its good that your cheery at bars. I hope you stay that way!



sly279
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16 Mar 2018, 7:24 pm

Oven never had a 2nd date so no relationships. So I know how you feel, it it’s likely since you had one you’ll have more, so it’s temporary for you.

Nights suck for me too. Sad and alone. In public everyone thinks I’m happy and normal.