And of course, from beyond the grave...

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My mother, who I've been so upset over, managed to reach out from beyond the grave to f**k me over once again. Without the help of any kind of magic. Just with general asshatery. I found out today, that a month ago, right before she went in the hospital, she went and took her name off as cosigner for my power bill, meaning I have to pay $600 without making any payment arrangements on it. Now. I had the $600, but I spent it at the f*****g funeral home. She didn't even bother to tell me she wasn't on my power bill anymore, she just waited for me to find out. Then she died. Knowing I was going to find out.

One of the worst parts about this is that I now have no opportunity to say anything back to her about it right now, because I'm too furious to make that doll. f**k that.

I can just hear her cackling about this, gleefully.

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Maybe she's pissed with you about the whole toe thing?

Wow,that just takes the cake.That was so mean of her to do that.

Sounds like, for all we love our mothers, life might just be saner and more stable without her in it.

Should you get around to making that doll, may I suggest that you store it in a jar of salt, in a deep hole in your back yard, under protective runes that have been drawn during a waning moon??

Sorry if I muddled that or screwed it up. And it might not work for you. I get the impression that you're more eclectic Voudoun; most of my alternative religious education was NeoPagan Lite (of the sort widely published by Llewellyn Books), and it was a LONG time ago.

Sorry about that, Olive Oil.

I'd be pissed, too!

I'm sorry Olive Oil. The more crap I hear like that, the more I wonder WHY so many Autistis have malignant, sociopathic, narcissistic parents. I do know that the amygdala in AUtistics tend to be thicker and more densely packed than those of most people [which would cause more anxiety, sensory issues, and feeling guilty even when we are not]and that the amygdala of the psychopath tends to be smaller than that of the average person.[ lack of guilt, needing to find ways to feel, of which torture and control can help do]

I know nothing about genetics or heredity, but is it POSSIBLE that the reason that so many [certainly not all] Autistics have parents that are pure evil is because people who carry the Autistic genes also tend to carry the malignant narcissist genes? [ Im sure I have worded this incorrectly, hopefully it will be understood what I am trying to ask]

I remember reading years ago that the person in the grossly dysfunctional family who acted out was actually the most healthy family member [for not pretending everything was just fine] Well,I think you still do act out. When you post something, everyone knows that they will not be bored. And when you tell a story, it is fascinating. It feels as though I am right there. Perhaps if you did not have the mother you had, you would not have the ability to grab someone by the gut and drag them them into your incredible life. I can think of NO ONE with the ability to do this as you do. I promise if you write a book I will buy it [and not on kindle or something, I want a hard book with a real smart ass comment next to your autograph]

Thanks Vicky. ((hugs))

The water is now turned off. I made arrangements yesterday to pay half of it, gave them $100 this morning and they came out and turned it off anyway. I now have to pay $183 to get it back on because of the $80 reconnect fee. DH will bring home about $250 this week because he didn't work a full week. $215 of that was to go to his fine here in town on Monday and keep him out of jail. That fine is for letting our car insurance lapse when he lost his job in Feb and we got hit by a truck and totalled the van. Do we want water or freedom and income? Wait though, it gets better. $600 has to be paid to the power company tomorrow or our lights go out Saturday. Can't arrange anything on that because of what my mother did to me out of spite before she died. So, it's here for months with no water or lights either. The car needs a rear main seal and that's $325, which we don't have either. There are no jobs here in town so I could get one and help out with this, and even if there were I would have no way to get to work. Then, no matter whether or not we can pay those things, DH goes to jail for a year on Wednesday for unpaid vet bills when he hit that f*****g dog that was laying in the road even though there was a leash law. The guy whose dog it is is a retired deputy and my MIL's next door neighbor. I talked to him the other day and he told me he knows she's got the money (hello, it's US who owe it not her) and that he wants that money and doesn't care what happens to us.

I literally cannot take any more of this. I cannot!! !!

The sh***y thing is, if DH had listened to what I told him to do from the beginning, none of this would have happened.

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OliveOil, you're a prepper. Get creative-- the lack of electricity and running water is a surmountable obstacle. A PITA, but a surmountable obstacle all the same. Endure, Adapt, and Overcome.

The rear main seal is a bit more difficult.

The fine issue/jail issue is sticky for sure. Not exactly sure of how to cope with that one. Think I'd tell the owner of the dog that, if he's so sure your MIL has the money, HE can go get it out of HER.

Guess she might be more likely to pony up if Baby Boy is in the slammer...

I dunno.

**hugs**

See what I say? Let that woman stay dead!