WHY does this always happen!?

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So I have no problem finding guys to text. Even talk on the phone with. But getting these guys to follow through on a date...

Last year I was talking to someone I met on OKCupid. Really cute, worked as an independent musician/song writer. We talked for weeks and he finally asked me out. The date night come and he has a minor crises come up. So we reschedule, the next date approaches and his Mom has to have surgery. Third attempt, eh, his mommy (whom he lived with) didn't want to be left alone while he drove all the way to Dalton to meet a girl. After that we ended our 'relationship' because I was to far away for it to be practical.

Fast-forward several months, I have a date for tonight. Make that I had a date for tonight. One of his clients had an emergency come up so he had to cancel to knock out some emergency graphics. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR How the hell am I ever going to get married if I can't even get a first date?! Back to square one I go.

Atleast you can get a date, no one wants to date me because I'm an aspie

But hey-ho, I'm only 15, so...

At 15 you shouldn't event be worrying about dates. But I am 31 years old. And women have a use by date and mines fast approaching. I need to find a man and get married soon and they all freaking flake out on me.

Maybe this one really did have an emergency. Might as well try one more time. Then if he doesn't go out with you move on. Many people get married when they are older so don't freak out.

You get really pressurized when all your pals are out popping cherries and you have barely looked at a girl in your life.

I can't just assign myself a new calling. All I've ever wanted to do was raise a bunch of little ones. When I was younger I wanted 8. Now I want 3, but I'll be lucky to have 1. You have no idea how painful it is to see babies everywhere and not have one of my own.

Ever since I was a child I wanted a baby of my own to raise and nurture and teach. I use to read the chapter on pregnancy and child birth in my moms medical text. Even before I learned to read I'd sit and examine the pictures. As soon as mom taught me to read (the school couldn't teach me, so she did) I started reading books and articles on parenting techniques. It's been my obsession since I can remember.

As a young girl I use to earn pocket money babysitting. And when I was living next to my granny I jumped at the chance to take care of my younger cousins, and later my older cousin's baby.

But can't even gets date, much less married. And I don't make enough money to get artificially inseminated. I know, I've looked into it. Even doing it yourself by have the sperm sent to your home is several thousand dollars a shot, with only a 20% chance of pregnancy per attempt.

And even aside from wanting a baby I am desperately lonely. I want someone to talk to. To play games and watch Nova with. To cuddle.

I love to cuddle when I feel comfortable with someone. And I am starved for touch. but I hate being touched by strangers so a massage is out of the question.

But every first date in a year has been canceled. [b]

I really want to have children too. I am older than half mad genius. I need to hurry up too. I know I would be a great father though. I need the help of a woman in order to accomplish this goal though. Half Mad Genius do you want to be a stay at home mom? Or do you want to work outside the home as well?

hmm. I too Have always wanted to have kids and a family. I don't see it other happening, so its sad to see everyone with their kids.

You could always find a guy to have sex for kids, though I imagine most would be afraid of child support and such. an ideal though.