I might be getting kicked out of my place!

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14 Jul 2014, 12:41 am

Well I got recent news from my landlord that I might have to move out by the middle of next month because her brother needs a place to stay and needs the room I am renting a place for him to stay! I am worried I might end up being homeless soon and again I don't want to be so hopefully I will find a place to stay and crash soon!


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14 Jul 2014, 1:34 am

Did you sign a lease or some kind of contract? I don't think it's legal for your landlord to just kick you out and give your home to her brother.



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14 Jul 2014, 4:49 am

Only contract was a year lease im not sure what to do I am contacting close bye friends to see what I can do and hops of getting a place soon.


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14 Jul 2014, 3:08 pm

Is there a social housing registry where you live? If you tell them your situation they may fast track you to a place.



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14 Jul 2014, 9:59 pm

I dont think there is, in the meantime i will be searching craigs list every day until i get a place, i am contacting all my friends who live close by to see if they can help me out.


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14 Jul 2014, 11:57 pm

Actually, as far as I know that's perfectly legal. We got more notice, but Mom and I moved out of a lot of places because the landlord needed a place to put a son/daughter/niece/nephew/brother/sister/parent. And the available space just happened to be the space we were in.

Tough deal, but there it is.

Hope very much that you find a room to rent or something. I'd say you could live with us for a few months if you could get yourself a ticket to PA, but Hubby threw fits when I let my high school buddy move in to our spare room (still complains about it, and that was almost a decade ago). He's having meltdowns over company coming up when it's not his company. I don't think he'd be cool with Someone I Know From The Internet.

Frankly, you probably wouldn't like living with me, or my kids, or the cats, or the dog, or the household and yard labor that I'd charge in lieu of rent.

If it helps any, you are probably catastrophizing. There are probably lots of rooms for rent, and you will probably find one and move into it just as happily as you moved into this one.

I will certainly hope for that for you.


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15 Jul 2014, 1:29 am

I still have a month its just all of a sudden and has put me into full panic and survival mode and no longer relax mode! I kinda had an anxiety attack but calmed down and getting into hyper focus mode to where my instincts to survive kick in. I have been in scenerios like this before in much shorter notices.


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15 Jul 2014, 9:35 am

Sorry to hear this,something like that happened to a friend,she was renting a little house and had been there for years,then the land lady's son needed a place to stay and she was forced out to find another place.Its kind of hard to be upset if it's their family,you can understand why they need the space,but it's not going to make it easier on you.Good luck on the search for a new home.


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15 Jul 2014, 10:36 am

Good luck on the pursuit of your new place. Make sure you sign an iron-clad lease.



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16 Jul 2014, 8:14 am

I'd let you crash on my couch if you lived in Cleveland. And if I had a couch. I suppose you could crash on a blow up mattress.


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19 Jul 2014, 2:16 am

Well good news I might be getting a place soon I just got to check it out tommorrow open house! I am kinda happy to move out tbh have a tennant trying to pick a fight with me for no reason and the landlord also notices it and mentioned he has a nasty personality.


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23 Jul 2014, 3:48 am

Still looking have a few places im looking at and also if I luck out the other tennant might get evicted because hes threatening the landlords husband and picking fights with him and other tennants as well. The cops have been called on him and any other confrontations and the guy goes to jail and if the guy picks a fight with me one more time I wont be so nice and apologetic and Ill start threatening him and put him on the ground.


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