I got a new mother

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Remember my problems with my crazy ass mother? Remember she died in May? Well, I been talking to Randy's mother, who as not only my first but also my best guy friend in high school, and I was part of the family back then and they were so f*****g cool! They got me the job in the carnival. Anyay, his mother told me that he doesn't call her. His fat ass never has time for her and she's keeping the younger brothers bratty ass five year old and has been for a year and yes I'm damn family and she considers me a daughter and she wants me and my kids to come see her, and she wants to buy us s**t, cause that is sort of what she does and she doesn't have to for us, I'm just glad to be considered her daughter.

This, to me, is a HUGE thing. She was the BEST MOM EVER back then and I did know her and as part of the family but I had no idea that she wanted to be MY MOM. I'm THRILLED! HA!! !! ! I STOLE RANDYS MOM!

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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
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I understand that you may be hurting.

I'm going to gently suggest that taking over someone else's familial ties [no matter the legitimacy, sincerity or extent of the act] may be a bit more than you can chew. It could have unforeseen repercussions not only on you, but also on your kids- particularly if, for whatever reason, you fall out of favor. That notwithstanding, there could still be other issues.

I think it should be OK for you to visit her, OOM, just "go with the flow" to use a cliche. She is probably lonely herself for some good company so I don't see anything wrong with it.

It will be just fine as long as you don't brag about "stealing R's mom" - keep "mum" about that!
It's more about building and maintaining the already positive relationship you have with her.

My kids are all grown. My youngest is 18. She was always the best mom of all our moms. Oddly enough now we both have grandbaby's the same age. And she's in my age group. She's 67 now and I'm 50. From 30 - 70 is my age group I guess. 20 years on each side.

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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
My forum is still there and everyone is welcome to come join as well. There is a private women only subforum there if anyone is interested. Also, there is no CAPTCHA.

The link to the forum is http://www.rightplanet.proboards.com

This happens all the time--throughout the world.

Go for it, OliveOil!

LOL...I don't think you "stole" anybody's mother. Instead, the "mother" gained a "daughter."

Just be friends.

You just buried one mom. Do you really want all the baggage of another one??

I would give my immortal soul to have Saint Alan back, or to be able to go see my stepmom...

...but I'm not fool enough to go pick myself up another daddy, and I know full well that I've had mother-figures enough for ten lifetimes.