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Angnix
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26 Aug 2020, 8:05 am

My uncle's roommate... Ummm on Facebook various friends started circulating the town's sex offender list... Not only is he for sure on there, but he's a tier 3 offender... And some of my friends didn't even know about this and were talking about him (he doesn't like to tell people of course)

His official offense: Criminal Sexual Conduct Assault With Intent To Commit Sexual Penetration

Okay if I get that job... See you later...

Edit: and his "jokes" keep getting more disturbing too... Like for example he jokes about bringing is best friend to my apartment so he can have sex with me, etc... Basically disturbing stuff...


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26 Aug 2020, 8:27 am

YIKES. Do you have to interact with this guy??


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26 Aug 2020, 8:28 am

I really think you should call the cops on him, and maybe even "out" him on that Facebook account.


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26 Aug 2020, 8:35 am

^ this

Take screenshots if you can of his FB page where he has all that awful stuff. It will provide more substantial evidence of his behavior to the police.


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26 Aug 2020, 8:38 am

honeytoast wrote:
^ this

Take screenshots if you can of his FB page where he has all that awful stuff. It will provide more substantial evidence of his behavior to the police.


First I'm supposed to pick him up today and drive him to an appointment... Ummm...

Second, he says this stuff to me verbally, he never types it out...


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26 Aug 2020, 8:40 am

Angnix wrote:
honeytoast wrote:
^ this

Take screenshots if you can of his FB page where he has all that awful stuff. It will provide more substantial evidence of his behavior to the police.


First I'm supposed to pick him up today and drive him to an appointment... Ummm...

Second, he says this stuff to me verbally, he never types it out...


Depending on where you live, you might be able to record him without getting into trouble.


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26 Aug 2020, 8:42 am

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... I'm supposed to pick him up today and drive him to an appointment...
"Supposed to"?  Who says that you are "Supposed to" do anything for him?  Come to think of it, who says that you are "Supposed to" even give him the time of day?

Please, stay away from him so that we won't be seeing you on the six o'clock news or reading about you in the obituaries...


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26 Aug 2020, 8:48 am

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... I'm supposed to pick him up today and drive him to an appointment...
"Supposed to"?  Who says that you are "Supposed to" do anything for him?  Come to think of it, who says that you are "Supposed to" even give him the time of day?

Please, stay away from him so that we won't be seeing you on the six o'clock news or reading about you in the obituaries...


My uncle is to lazy to take him to his appointments...

This is why I'm hoping to get that position in Connecticut.... In fact I'm eagerly awaiting hearing back from them!


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26 Aug 2020, 8:53 am

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... I'm supposed to pick him up today and drive him to an appointment...
"Supposed to"?  Who says that you are "Supposed to" do anything for him?  Come to think of it, who says that you are "Supposed to" even give him the time of day?  Please, stay away from him so that we won't be seeing you on the six o'clock news or reading about you in the obituaries...
My uncle is to lazy to take him to his appointments...
Sure ... but why are YOU the one who is "Supposed To" put your life in danger by driving this creep anywhere?  You are NOT responsible for him, and sex-offenders are known as the most likely to be repeat offenders, which is why they get put on "watch lists".

Do you want to be his next victim?


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26 Aug 2020, 9:01 am

I got brave enough to tell him that my uncle needs to take him to his appointments...

Yay for me!


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26 Aug 2020, 9:05 am

He knew about the FB gossip and figured out why I said that... Next it's probably going to be my uncle calling me or texting me... :(


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26 Aug 2020, 9:14 am

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I got brave enough to tell him that my uncle needs to take him to his appointments... Yay for me!
Good work!  Now, please stick to your decision, and please make it clear that it is a permanent one.  Predatory creeps like him need only be given one opportunity to commit their 'special' crime, resulting in one more victim in the emergency room or on the coroner's table.


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26 Aug 2020, 9:17 am

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Angnix wrote:
I got brave enough to tell him that my uncle needs to take him to his appointments... Yay for me!
Good work!  Now, please stick to your decision, and please make it clear that it is a permanent one.  Predatory creeps like him need only be given one opportunity to commit their 'special' crime, resulting in one more victim in the emergency room or on the coroner's table.


And right on cue... My uncle texts me.... It's always like this when I piss my uncle off... He's extremely angry... But I told him to stop talking to me...


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26 Aug 2020, 9:20 am

Angnix wrote:
I got brave enough to tell him that my uncle needs to take him to his appointments...

Yay for me!


Good for you. :)

Why do you need to give your uncle the time of day if he's going to pressure you into putting yourself into dangerous situations with a dangerous man? Ignore your uncle; he's being despicable. Fnord is right. Keep standing up for yourself and not letting sex offenders and their enablers take advantage of your kind nature. :heart:


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26 Aug 2020, 9:23 am

Angnix wrote:
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Angnix wrote:
I got brave enough to tell him that my uncle needs to take him to his appointments... Yay for me!
Good work!  Now, please stick to your decision, and please make it clear that it is a permanent one.  Predatory creeps like him need only be given one opportunity to commit their 'special' crime, resulting in one more victim in the emergency room or on the coroner's table.
And right on cue... My uncle texts me.... It's always like this when I piss my uncle off... He's extremely angry... But I told him to stop talking to me...
YAY YOU!!

He's a manipulator called in to support a predator -- I could say more (much more), but those words might get me banned.


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26 Aug 2020, 9:31 am

Yeah... On Facebook people were worried about me losing my apartment if I get that position, or losing my disability... But we'll I think it's worth it to get away from them...


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