When female thinks you fancy her then hate me

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Hi well I try to be friends if girl (she has aspergers too) but she think I fancy her and told me to go away
oh we only talk thought email too
I don't fancy her and I said would like tell her something
What I was going to tell her is that I crossdresser and like to wear woman clothes and maybe she help me if shoping
well the day when me and her was to have a talk the group we both in she talking if her friend so I could't just go to her say what about the chat we going to have after the meeting and she when if her friend home

A few day later and now 14th Feb now I get email from her saying "I don't fancy you and meet some one"
I reply back saying "I never did say I fancy you" So I told her I don't fancy you how would you know my feeling I gay"
I told I gay ever I not because I don't want her to think I fancy her.
She did'nt reply back

now 4 days late in the meeting she said hello to me but was walking so fast so was gone
so I sent email to her asking her did she say hello she did and then she say "I deliberately snubbed me because you're angry that I don't want to date you"
I told her I would said hello but you walk so quick and thought you like me to leave you alone
she did'nt reply back

can someone give me idea on what I did wrong
I very sure it can't by fix

I don't think even NT males fully understand the ways of Women.

I think both people are stressed out here and too worried about signs that the other is angry or not being honest. You both agree you don't want to date, even though she initially jumped to conclusions. Perhaps a simple apology for all the confusion and saying that you're happy to have each other to talk to.

I try to apology

But say I playing mind games

yep her fault