Goodbye everyone

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It's been nice knowing everyone here, friends and enemies alike - even the trolls of I2/ZOMG which made horrible pages of me. I've forgiven you BTW. I'm just going somewhere there isn't internet and hopefully see my mom and dad again. I'll be okay. I hope I can find someone to care for my birds first or that the weather improves. Take care everyone. God bless you all.

I'll miss your PPR posts. See ya later, I hope. Have a safe trip.

So you're not coming back? Hopefully everything is okay, stay safe man.

why can't you take your birds with you?

I... don't think he is *travelling* to his parents...

Lama, have you seen a therapist lately? i don't think you have to go to these extremes...

IAAP: Please don't do this.....

I didn't. I was going to jump into the cold river, but some officers came along and told me it's not safe to walk outside at night in the fog and brought me back home. I just want Jackie back. I'm sorry for what I said, I was wrong.

IAAP: You weren't wrong----you were just reaching-out----totally understandable!

I, and so many others on here, totally understand heartbreak----understand your missing your wife----but please don't want to not live, anymore, because of it. The next time you feel this way, call the Suicide Prevention hotline, at 1-800-273-8255.

Also, I know what a good Christian you are, and surely you've heard that if you take your own life, God won't take you "home"----so, you wouldn't have a chance of seeing your Mom and Dad, again.....

Also, I would suggest getting a new avatar----you're only torturing yourself!!

Here's a nice one:

http://www.justcurious.co.za/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Live.jpg

It's "electrified"----what you need, right now, to shock you out of this slump, you're in.

If you don't like that one, here's a whole page-full:

https://www.google.com/search?site=imghp&tbm=isch&source=hp&biw=&bih=&q=Live&btnG=Search+by+image

God has a great plan for your life. (Genesis 1:26)

Be strong, brother.....

Iamaparakeet I like you, we don't always see eye for eye, but I think you are really decent bloke and a great character. I remember you from the early days, and I always felt you were a man of conviction.

I do think you should consider seeing a therapist, there is no shame in it. I myself have been to one myself in fact.

You have a lot on you plate, and it would good idea.

[MOVED from PPR to The Haven]

yeah i thought so but I wasn't sure how what to say if i was wrong.

Thank you for telling us that you didnt.

I am very sorry for you that you mourn so much this relationship to Jackie.

The importance of the relationship you had with one another remains. It is not that everything is annihilated just because the intense phase of your relationship has come to an end. Even if it appears right now like that. All the good things she has given to you, and you to her, remain. Dont feel too sad about the faults you made. People always make faults. It is important that you have admitted your faults, and later you will be able to think them through better, and maybe find one or another way to make up for what you did wrong. But for the moment it is important that you try to be a little forgiving towards yourself. Forgiveness is probably the most important and difficult gift people can give to each other but also to themselves.

Hang in there dude.

I'm 51 and lost my wife a few months ago. Lost her because she says I'm broken.

I know EXACTLY how you feel. Adrift. No anchor. No meaning. No foundation. No connection.

I'm resting right now to put the pain behind me. I've been here before, resting helps me.

Good that it wasn't the "goodbye cruel world" thread I expected.

How are you doing?

I have 2 ex partners who were shattered when I left them, and I care about both a lot. With one of them I have quite a good relationship now, we even share an apartment right now.

I care a lot about how you feel.