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28 Mar 2007, 7:16 pm

its pity and sympath but i cant get that because i seem normal people think im strange but when i give them a reason they write it off like im making excuses im hurting and want your sypathy your pity jist show you care



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28 Mar 2007, 7:19 pm

CHIRP!



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28 Mar 2007, 7:35 pm

You come to an Aspergers site for sympathy????Actually I dont know to much about pity but if you are in pain I am sorry that you feel that way...unless the pain helps you make positive changes in your life,then it is actually good.(Like noticing your hand is burning and hurts,so you remove it from the stove...then it's a good pain.)Get your hand off the stove,if you still dont feel better,you have my sympathy......just a little bit, because I have to save most of it for the women being raped in Darfur,Iraqi being terrorized in their own country and the dogs being abandoned and the raccoon that was recently hit by a car and is lieing bleeding on the side of the road while it's children wait in the den for their supper.

Hope tomorrow is a better day for us all.


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28 Mar 2007, 7:50 pm

think pity and sympathy are generally gotten by EXPLAINING what's wrong...

you don't just get them by advertising that you want them... that in itself, shows you are not in need of someone's pity or sympathy so much as you are manipulative and selfish... both of which are traits not deserving of pity OR sympathy.

however... if you earnestly attempt to explain to ppl here what's up... why you're feeling so bad...

that there are plenty of people here who wont look at you weird or make you an outcast.


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28 Mar 2007, 8:27 pm

krex wrote:
You come to an Aspergers site for sympathy????.


Some of us try. What could cheer someone up more than a chirp?



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28 Mar 2007, 8:36 pm

A purr and a headbutt?


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28 Mar 2007, 8:57 pm

Not if you're a bird.



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28 Mar 2007, 9:37 pm

calandale wrote:
Not if you're a bird.


Good point.


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28 Mar 2007, 9:49 pm

Why?


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