How do you function!????

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zeldapsychology
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22 May 2015, 8:28 am

I've mention issues with parents in the past these past few weeks have been sort of bad. About 2 weeks ago dad started boating school to become a captain he's not academic focused more maintenance driving boats guy so school/tests are a huge challenge studying and understanding it all etc. But lately he's more loud and ruder than usual!! ! I have unemployment issues as stated in other recent posts of mine. I know I didn't get a full 8 hrs. of sleep last night yet alone probably less than 7 so I'm sort of emotional this morning then dad said "Get a frickin job!" I teared up as he was leaving. I talked to mom about it and she understands he's a rude a**hole sometimes and ALOT more lately although past year+ he has been rude nearly in everything he says to you! (you in general as in everyone in the family mom my sisters etc.) :-(

It's getting old!! !! My WP friend and past WP posts talk about ignoring it not letting him get to me but it's so hard to block him out! You have frolicking days of throwing a ball in a pool which is nice or chatting in the pool the other 99% is rude talking SHEESH!! !! !

My family has upset me a lot overall over the years and I at times wish I could move out but that's not an option. Planning to maybe return to college to learn programming since I enjoy that. So hard to not let him get to me. :-(



Mavis
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24 May 2015, 8:24 pm

Some people have too much tension and need a lot of space. Maybe he'll stop taking it out on you so much once he's less stressed...

I think you already know the only way to deal with this situation is to hang in there and try to get away from these people. It's good you have one possible plan already. :)