Dear WrongPlanet:

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Alex,

BAN ME.

Please.

I'm tired of putting up with a bunch of member's BS. People keep on saying that I'm a whore,that I'm ugly,that I'm an attention-seeker,and keep on trying to put my opinions down. A few older men from here even keep Instant Messaging me and acting perverted.

I found this rather hilarious at first. Now,it's getting old. I mean,who wants to live with this sh*t? As I have said many times before: If I said something that has offended you,then PLEASE PM me about it,so we can work it out. But these people won't do this and keep on with thier attacks.

Guess what?

I'm DONE. I have enough sh*t going on in my ACTUAL life with my family--especially my mother--and so-called friends without the fact that people from MY HAVEN are starting to make fun of me because of that now.

And,yes,I do realize that I'm being dramatic right now,but I could care less at the moment,I'm so pissed off.

If you want to ban me,that's fine. It won't matter in a while,anyway.


So Long,
SpaceCase

PM me or the other mods about the threads in question and we can remove them.

SpaceCase - You've always seemed reasonable in the short time that I've been here. I will certainly miss your presence. I hope that you reconsider, as there is a lot of good on this site. The opinions of a few people who have some axe to grind with you doesn't seem like a reason to run away from what is good here.

As to messages, you should remove your IM addresses, and only give them out on request. No one should have to put up with that kind of stuff, but the internet is going to cause it.

Good luck in your endeavors.

moved to the haven

If you would like an older womans opinion or advice you're welcome to talk to me on MSN.

As said in mail, you know where to find me...take your pick of messengers, lol. I hope you are feeling a little calmer now.

SP

While I don't think the behaviors of these ppl towards you are appropriate AT ALL... I do think you post a lot of provocative thoughts...

These will often elicit some irrational/agressive responses from people (myeslf included... /guilty... apologies again, lol) and if you're gonna post on these kinds of topics... you have to deal with these responses. even you saying that you want the people to PM you suggests that it's not the actual response that's bothering you (cept for those pervies)... it's the publicity of their response in just the forums... this kind of attitude just perpetuates the situation... sends mixed messages.

I think if you go to your posts list... and actually sit down and read from the beginning... all the stuff you have said... you might be able to see why all these people are perceving you this way. not saying that correlation=causation... but i think you have to admit that there may be a pattern. you are very open about your status on some very sexual things and you are posting them on a board with losts of lonely people.... it kinda makes sense to me, why you are getting some of these responses...

this is kinda why i had my little rant with you... i've had some similar things happen... but they went a lot worse... this is why i am a little more composed (usually, lol) on the internet these days....

and why i'm worried about ya... it's good that you know yourself... but you just gotta be careful.

Edit: i hope i'm conveying my big sisterly love to ya /hug

Who pissed you off,apart from richardbenson for calling you ugly?

I'm sorry if you've been upset SpaceCase, people say stuff without thinking sometimes. I don't think they realise how hurtful they can be.
I hope you'll take no notice and decide to stay. You have friends here, and if you enjoy it here most of the time, don't let anyone push you out.

It's bad that you're leaving because you make such wonderful and unique posts and topics, but if you feel you have to leave, then do so. Atleast I can still talk to you on the phone and on MSN.

You can just leave the forum and not ever come back. Don't even visit this place.

I took it to mean the opposite - that if it's so painful she should let it go and not think about it at all.

I'm sad but I understand. I had to leave at a certain point because there was too much hostility in the air.

Space has not written a post since this last one. If she's lurking, I hope she reads my signature