RAGE!

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I am so sick of this. I'm not allowed to do anything. I can't go out and make friends. I can't come to nanna's all the time. I have to sit at home and do nothing. I have no friends. I have nothing but video games. I can't get a job. I can't get new video games.

RAGE!! !

I cannot suggest anything as your mother seems so determined to keep you under lock and key, but I really hope that things do get better and you are given some freedom. Just keep calmly telling your mother that you need things to change.

She just ignores me though.

Then make it so she cannot ignore you. I see no other choice. Surely she must take you out, I mean, no one can be holed up indoors 24/7

She takes me to nanna's, but that's all.

I can identify with you very much, that was pretty much my situation for my first 18 years. My mother became paranoid after my DX and always tried to keep me under lock and key. I don't even know what is involved with "hanging out" because my mother would never let me get out of the house without parental supervision. I never even had access to a computer. I'm having problems because my parents never let me take responsibility for anything, they never even let me get a job. My transition to the real world has been rougher than most people's because of this. I was basically grounded for my first 18 years, it sucked.

Just hold out. Your mother can't keep you there forever. You might have to wait a couple years. It really is a powerless situation but it doesn't last forever.

I'll be stuck here all my life...

Try this:
"Why won't you let me outside to make friends?"
"Because I do not want you to."
"Why not?"
"Because."
"WHY NOT?"
"Because I don't want you to!"
"WHY. NOT?"
"Because I love you."
"No you don't. You're letting me rot inside for the rest of my life, that's what you're doing. You never loved me the minute after I was diagnosed."

As if that'd work.

maybe try writing her a note about how you feel?

i tend to do better when i can write stuff out to people

That won't work either.

You have to try things before knowing they wont work.

Nothing will work though. And I'm not at home right now.

If nothing else will work,run away from home,that should change her mind....hopefully.

And where can I run to? Nowhere.

I'm even angrier now. You people don't seem to get the fact I have a short temper!!