13 Dec 2015, 2:54 am
I love my life and I love my boyfriend. However, I have difficulty completely letting go of past people who let me down because I expected more than I should have. This is especially for a guy in the past who I had high hopes for after 3 dates, however he told me he's not interested in the most kiss a** way and whenever he comes to mind, I still have a grudge for him and I hate him and I wish him the worst. I even wrote a song about him with my band. I think I had mis matched the ideal lover with the ideal a**hole. He's just a blatant burden to society. I certainly have been through a hell of a lot more than he has. I hope he sees how much more successful I am than he is. It has been 3 years ago and he unfortunately comes up somehow. I hate disappointment but I love it to which it makes me stronger and smarter. I need a advice on how to let go. You can ask more questions to clarify anything. 
Thanks.
13 Dec 2015, 7:14 am
There was someone I really, truly hated. He was practically the opposite of what I thought a good person should be like. It's been awhile now, and I've let go in two stages.
First, I turned the hate into pity. I pitied him; he'd never know happiness or success in the manner I would, so long as he remained the same.
After that, it was easy. For me at least, the pity was easy to forget about; it was easy to forget about him.
