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sly279
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19 Jan 2016, 3:32 am

My rights.

Nights are the worst
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19 Jan 2016, 4:58 am

What do you mean "threat of losing your rights"?
I'm sorry you're lonely.


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19 Jan 2016, 7:22 am

Sleepless nights are a real dick when you've got negative feelings on your mind.



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19 Jan 2016, 7:51 am

He's concerned that he might be losing his gun rights because of Obama's proclamation.

Your negative thoughts about yourself are probably the primary reason why you're not successful so far in your pursuits, Mr. Sly.

You're a nice guy. Many women like cuddles...truthfully.



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19 Jan 2016, 8:47 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
He's concerned that he might be losing his gun rights because of Obama's proclamation.

Your negative thoughts about yourself are probably the primary reason why you're not successful so far in your pursuits, Mr. Sly.

You're a nice guy. Many women like cuddles...truthfully.


So really what you're trying to say is:
FIX YOUR GOD DAMN SELF ESTEEM!

Or something along those lines?



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19 Jan 2016, 9:18 am

No....I'm not trying to say that in that way.

I'm trying to say---that he should try to meet women in his neighborhood, rather than through these dating sites.

And that he's a better man than he thinks he is.



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19 Jan 2016, 9:28 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
No....I'm not trying to say that in that way.

I'm trying to say---that he should try to meet women in his neighborhood, rather than through these dating sites.

And that he's a better man than he thinks he is.


Seems a bit of a leap in logic from your previous comment to what you're saying now. Oh well, I think my bold shouty sentence is good advice in general. Nobody likes people that wallow in self-pity.

I agree that dating sites are rubbish, but what makes you think there's a single woman in his neighborhood worth anything?



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19 Jan 2016, 11:42 am

LOL...How am I supposed to know? I don't live there.

Just speculating.

Usually, people in "real life" are better than people on the Internet--especially those in dating sites.



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19 Jan 2016, 11:52 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
LOL...How am I supposed to know? I don't live there.

Just speculating.


Ah, I see. Well I agree anyway. Talking to real people is infinitely preferable to trying to form meaningful relationships over the internet.



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19 Jan 2016, 1:54 pm

But the people in real,life are the same people on the dating sites.
0.o



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19 Jan 2016, 2:32 pm

I really wish your family knew more people.

Maybe I have an overly optimistic view of people; who knows?

But I've met lots of nice, decent girls in my time (most of whom didn't go for me in a romantic way, but they might go for you; who knows?)

Think about that girl on "Big Bang Theory." She is sort of the type of girl one runs into in modern life. Very NT. she went out with one of the Aspie-like characters without a problem.



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19 Jan 2016, 4:28 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I really wish your family knew more people.

Maybe I have an overly optimistic view of people; who knows?

But I've met lots of nice, decent girls in my time (most of whom didn't go for me in a romantic way, but they might go for you; who knows?)

Think about that girl on "Big Bang Theory." She is sort of the type of girl one runs into in modern life. Very NT. she went out with one of the Aspie-like characters without a problem.

Perhaps it's a east coast thing.

Sister does but she likely doesn't think I good enough for them.

That's a tv show, in rl she'd never go for him. Even on the show she's borderline leaving him, they have nothing in common and she seems to treat him wrong.

If life was a show or movie then I'd be with a girl by now.



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19 Jan 2016, 6:36 pm

Nah....I think the girl on Big Bang Theory really liked the guy---she just didn't know what to make of him. They kept on breaking up and getting back together. She still has the hots for him.

Yes, it's a TV show--but I've seen these sort of romances in real life. I've been in that sort of romance.

You're a worthy guy--more worthy than you think. I think you'll find somebody, eventually. It gets better as you get older.



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19 Jan 2016, 6:54 pm

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Nah....I think the girl on Big Bang Theory really liked the guy---she just didn't know what to make of him. They kept on breaking up and getting back together. She still has the hots for him.

Yes, it's a TV show--but I've seen these sort of romances in real life. I've been in that sort of romance.

You're a worthy guy--more worthy than you think. I think you'll find somebody, eventually. It gets better as you get older.



How does it get better?
Older you get the more money counts
I see 70-80 old women asking for the the same stuff 20 old women do?



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19 Jan 2016, 7:01 pm

You'd probably find woman more your speed in the Portland or Seattle areas.

I thought Eugene was a relatively artsy place.



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19 Jan 2016, 10:47 pm

sly279 wrote:
Nights are the worst
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I'm sorry you're lonely Sly :( .
Do you have any pets? My cat makes me feel less lonely.