I Wish I Can Get My Sister Out Of My Life!!

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Kitty4670
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30 Jan 2016, 7:13 pm

When I moved on my own again, in the beginning 6 months ago, I needed alot of help from my sister, now I hardly need her help & I never needed my dad's help. I HATE that I need her help, she's helping me with my bills, I don't understand what else she need to do with my bills, I'm paying my own bills & they are on auto pay. Do I really need credit to pay bills? Can someone please tell me? And my sister is in charge of my mom's Trust, I wish I have my own lawyer or someone to help me with my money & taxes.

She can twist my words around & really blame me like I'm the bad guy & she is an angel. Last year she called me evil & she thought I was going poison her, she wanted to call the police on me.



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01 Feb 2016, 8:24 am

I know what you mean. Sometimes, people who have something over you take advantage of it.



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05 Feb 2016, 2:29 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I know what you mean. Sometimes, people who have something over you take advantage of it.

My sister have what over me to take advantage? She was never like this before my mom died. Me & my sister are at war.



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06 Feb 2016, 9:31 am

Your sister sounds abusive. I don't know much about paying bills since I don't live independently, but I would not trust her word at all.



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07 Feb 2016, 12:58 am

Ettina wrote:
Your sister sounds abusive. I don't know much about paying bills since I don't live independently, but I would not trust her word at all.



I don't trust her, but I have to, she's in charge of my money that our mother left us. She is not physical abusive, she verbal abuse me before. Now that I'm living on my own, I don't text her too much :D But I really hate that she's in charge of my money & my bills.



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08 Feb 2016, 6:42 pm

Maybe you can get an advocate to help you. It depends what origination are in your area.