I'm 20, single, and will die alone being happy.

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Moostar
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02 Mar 2016, 5:35 pm

As the years go by and I'm one year away from graduation ( hopefully.) I'm doing some inner soul searching and have came to the realization that I'm going to die without a partner and no friends. Family doesn't count because I know they'll be at my side until death. which is quite a nice thing. I'm going into the IT industry and that means I'm going to be more at focus with where I want to take my career than making friends. I'll be acquainting others who guide me across the way. But other wise, I'm going to strife my way to die as comfortable as I can. Even on days when I become emotionally broken.



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02 Mar 2016, 5:57 pm

I really get the feeling that you will make friends when you start working in IT. Many people in IT are Aspie, or Aspie-like, and understand our peculiarities.

It's really good that you will graduate soon.

Your marks must be at least decent.



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02 Mar 2016, 6:08 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I really get the feeling that you will make friends when you start working in IT. Many people in IT are Aspie, or Aspie-like, and understand our peculiarities.

It's really good that you will graduate soon.

Your marks must be at least decent.



I'm holding on till then. I've been looking at a few forums here and on other websites. I feel that so many people are too caught up upon the future about this very point in their lives. Most forget about their own since of self- happiness. Most of the time, it was up to me to make myself happy. If its reading, playing games, watching videos online, etc. I want to get this feeling out at this age as soon is possible. As their is far more concerning things in life then just being alone. Not to become homeless and starving.



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04 Mar 2016, 4:18 am

more important than making friends, is being a friend.