Kitty4670 wrote:
My stomach is sensitive to the sun, the sun can make me a little sick to my stomach & easily put me in a bad mood. I don't know why, maybe because I'm sensitive to a lot of things. That why I HATE my apartment, there toooo much sun coming through my windows & other stuff too that I can't deal with. And I can't handle my cat a lot of the time too. Every apartment I had, something always wrong with it, mostly the sun. I wish I know what to do to make me happy about living here.
I am a shut-in who spends 99% of my time in my apartment. I am what people would refer to as a "hikikomori". I only leave my apartment to buy groceries. Sometimes I see my family, if I can get a ride. My illness keeps me within an hour to two hour radius from my house.
Listen up, because I speak from experience and I know what I'm talking about.
1. The sun is not what is putting you in a bad mood. Sometimes it can be bothersome, but a good set of blinds, or even newspapers or garbage bags will do. You could have also have a mould problem that's making you sick, and irritable. I have mould issues in my apartment. That's just apartment living. Use a lysol wipe to scrub off the mould around the windows or bathtub or wherever it collects, and circulate the air with open windows and fans.
2. I've had a problem with every apartment I've ever lived in too, including this one. Unless you're rich, you make do. Things have gotten better here, because enough tenants complain about things, then stuff gets done.
3. Clean your apartment, wash your dishes, and do laundry regularly. Your apartment is your castle, it is your refuge, it is your sanctuary. Treat it as such.
4. Get a stuffed cat instead. I have cared for pets before, because I've lived with many roommates who have had pets. As much as I love animals, and get along with them, I do not want one for myself. There are many people who would gladly adopt a cat, and give it a loving home. Maybe consider doing that, if the cat is too much. I have a few stuffed dogs.
Follow these steps, and that will greatly improve your apartment.
Remember. Your apartment is your palace. Treat it as such.