What should I do?

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My friend found out she was pregnant a few weeks ago, but over the last few days she began to bleed. She went to the hospital on Friday, to find out if she had miscarried. I have not heard from her, so I am thinking it is bad news. I am really worried. I do not want to phone, because I never no the right thing to say. I sent her a text message, normally I get a message stating that it was received but didn't. I am really confused as to what to do.

If I was to phone, what would be the right/wrong thing to say?

I think you should call her, and ask, 'how are you doing?' or say,'I'm worried about you and I want to know what's going on' or something like that.

Yes, I should do that but there is something stopping me. I feel like I shouldn't call her, why do I feel this way?

I don't know, but I feel that way too when I should call someone.

I will phone her tomorrow, as it's after 9pm here and she generally goes to bed early.

Thanks starbuline

You should call her as soon as you can. That is a very hard thing to go through, so she will need support from her friends. Best of luck.

I will TruenoBlues, I no it must be hard for her. I feel bad that I haven't been in touch, but I feel that she does not want to talk. I hope to talk with her tomorrow and will let you all know how she is.

Well I could not get in contact with my friend, she is blocking everyone away. I was talking to her mother and she said she had a miscarriage. It must be so hard for her, but I don't drive so I cannot visit her. I wish I could be there for her, but I suppose she needs time to grieve. Hopefully I will see her soon, and she will be feeling a little better.

Thanks for all your advice.

that poor woman...I hope she opens up to you so you can be with her

I hope so to kilroy. I wish I was with her right now, to show her how much I care about her. She has helped me trough so many bad times and I want to do the same for her.

and you will-she just needs some time to be alone...at least that's what it sounds like