Living situation is falling apart

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Mom and sister fight all time now and mom may have just cost sister her job.

I'm going go see housing tomorrow about applying but that could take years. I should have listened to vocrehab and done it year ago

Well I'll have call the disabled services people tomorrow anyways, i dont know when I'll be able to get an appointment.

Isn't family wonderful? /sarcasm

I don't seem to like living alone though now that I am fully. Maybe if I worked full-time or at least part-time I wouldn't mind it but it gets lonely living alone when I don't go out anywhere.

That's what I'm afraid of. I already feel so alone, I don't think I'd do well completely cut off from others.

Being away from your family every day is better, they're probably one of if not the biggest source of stress I have. Distance makes the heart grow founder 'ya know? Being all alone is a scary prospect however. Hope things straighten out and the drama dies down, good luck.

Was really hard but I ignored the lady at work when she tried talking to me.


Akward 15 minutes and now I feel like crying

Why did you ignore her??? Also I'm sorry to hear about you situation (>'_')>

She ignores me on face book so I don't think she actually likes me. I'm guessing it's that two face thing nts do. I actually like her

What if she doesn't like fb? I have fb but rarely use it.

I doubt she is intentionally ignoring you if she tries to talk to you at work. Why would she bother trying to talk to you at all??

Next time just male polite small talk

But then why wouldn't she say hey sorry I don't like texting as a reply

Did you know she saw it?

You shouldn't have ignored her. It's impolite to do that. How do you know she's ignoring you on Facebook?

C'mon Sly....you know that wasn't right, right?

Yes Facebook tells when someone views a message along with a time stamp of when they did.

See above. Even text messages tell you when people have viewed them now days.

I nee to protect myself first and foremost. I don't need to grow more attached to people who dislike me.

Need to remember no woman wil ever like me. Need to stop being naive and foolishly believing otherwise.

But Sly....you can't just ignore people, man.

She's a human being; you're a human being. It's just wrong to ignore somebody. She hasn't done any real harm to you.

She might, or might not like you as a lover--but that's immaterial. Unless she's blatantly baiting you, calling you names, you really shouldn't ignore her. You should talk to her like a human being.

I didn't ignore her complete. I talked to her as required by my job. I'm not going get into personally and friendly conversations with someone who dislikes me. She clearly doesn't really want to talk to me so why should I pretend to her pretending to want to. I'm sorry but that's illogical. I don't do that mind game s**t. I talked to her because I like her and thought she liked me. It was the longest I've talked to a random girl before who I didn't first talk via text for weeks with.

I'm just something to do to pass the time for her, mean while I get emotionally attached and hurt. I don't use people to pass time. I've stayed after work for hour each time to talk to her, I could been heading home to eat and rest after. Or eating for 9 hours and only having 4 hours sleep. I'm a idiot for thinking she actually liked me

She might like you as a friend. Who knows? Maybe she likes you as more than a friend and you don't know it.

If she likes you as a friend, maybe SHE has a friend she can introduce you to.

That's how most people get into relationships--through being introduced.

I'm thinking maybe she has many friends on Facebook, and that she just didn't see what you wrote.