Feeling misunderstood on here

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I know I'm new still to the boards. I get it, I hate the fact and vibes I sense on here with me is that I'm a ignorant, a-hole, lolcow, inconsiderate of others, and attack others, non-empathetic, instigating, PoS newbie. I know I look at my posts and have earned it. Along with angry.


Thing is I do mean well in these posts and I have no intention of negativity behind it I truly don't liked being blamed for things like I was in that sly topic and would like to come to WP forums and not seem like a loser PoS. I have struggles with non NT boards, I've been doing non AS boards for over 10 years. So to be here now is hard.

Including dealing with Aspies or any form of it internet or real life with people. I want to say something to a Aspie I know through meetup in real life about talking to her about easing up on her Instagram with tagging me in a lot of her photos. Also via text her real life problems, cause I'm not really sure how to respond. Then this is probably translating on to WP with interactions publically.

But yeah. I'll get white knighted for this. I had it coming though here and this post as well for not knowing how sly and some others are about things and me not knowing what the case was. I don't want to leave WP, though I need to learn things and adjust and adapt.

Not depressed, but agitated and annoyed if anything. I just want people to know I'm not what my posts say that I am. I'm willing to try to help explain if anyone wants to ask publically what I mean and I'm willing to go PM to not clog up a topic or look worse on both ends. Then I realize that 1st paragraph is probably of what most think I am on WP. :/

With the sly fiasco without knowing much of how things are with the person. I didn't know much about this situation, but got white knighted without knowing much about the situation. But anyway, I feel like a PoS on WP, I did have it coming with how I am on here.

I left the worst impression of me and I know it.

Emma, the thing about learning curves is that it is ok to make mistakes, because we learn from them. And The Haven has a different ethos from the rest of the forum, it takes time to adjust to that. That you have reflected on your own learning curve shows that you have good will and your learning curve is going in a strongly positive direction.

I think you are being too hard on yourself. My interactions with you have been just fine! You are a nice person. I don't get along with a huge amount of people generally.

Not everyone here will get along, thats how human nature works. It's probably best to avoid the ones you don't like and interact with the people you get along with more. If mistakes were made, then explain it to them or perhaps they will apologize? I dont know.

Don't worry about it Briana. There are people on here that understand you. If you need to say something incredibly offensive just PM me. I'm not very easily offended.

Don't put so much pressure on yourself. There are many here on WP who will listen to you.