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KagamineLen
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25 Jun 2016, 10:04 pm

Now she is making commentary about how she thinks I have an unattractive ass.

And she seriously does not understand how creepy that commentary is. She laughs at me when I try to explain that to her.

* sigh *

It is never a mother's place to judge the attractiveness of her child's buttocks. And it most certainly is never a mother's place to make pervasive and unwelcome commentary around that topic.



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25 Jun 2016, 10:09 pm

It's awkward can't deny that. Could it be just some good natured ball-busting perhaps?



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26 Jun 2016, 12:08 am

That's revolting.

Please tell me she's shitfaced drunk.


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26 Jun 2016, 5:19 am

BuyerBeware wrote:
That's revolting.

Please tell me she's shitfaced drunk.


My mother does not drink. Nor does she take any drugs. She is insane enough without chemical enhancements.



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26 Jun 2016, 5:31 am

It would be worse if she found your ass attractive though...



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26 Jun 2016, 6:09 am

You should know that your mother is totally nuts!

Don't let this impact your recovery.



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26 Jun 2016, 6:46 am

KagamineLen wrote:
Now she is making commentary about how she thinks I have an unattractive ass.

And she seriously does not understand how creepy that commentary is. She laughs at me when I try to explain that to her.

* sigh *

It is never a mother's place to judge the attractiveness of her child's buttocks. And it most certainly is never a mother's place to make pervasive and unwelcome commentary around that topic.


I wish I couldn't relate to this, but I can. My mom told me once that I have a sexy voice. It was deeply uncomfortable.



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28 Jun 2016, 1:56 am

KagamineLen wrote:
Now she is making commentary about how she thinks I have an unattractive ass.

And she seriously does not understand how creepy that commentary is. She laughs at me when I try to explain that to her.

* sigh *

It is never a mother's place to judge the attractiveness of her child's buttocks. And it most certainly is never a mother's place to make pervasive and unwelcome commentary around that topic.

Any chance she is on the spectrum, too?


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28 Jun 2016, 11:30 am

That is indeed very creepy. I can relate. I'm sorry you have to deal with that kind of inappropriately sexualized behavior from your mother. I'm also wondering if she might be on the spectrum. It doesn't in any way excuse her, of course.


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