Sick of being ignored by emails

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25 Jun 2016, 12:00 pm

Ugh, I feel so sick and tired of getting ignored by freaking emails! I am so sick of people's BS. I hope they freaking leave me alone. I am tired of trying to be a friend and getting no response or rejected. These people act like they care about me when they are with me in person. Yet they can't take a few minutes out of their day to reply to my messages. It's so rude and inconsiderate!! I'm so sick of it. They are not my friends and they do not care about me!! I hope they go away and leave me alone!! !

arkatron
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28 Jun 2016, 11:37 am

I'm sorry you're going through this painful experience. I also particularly hate being ignored. Sometimes my messages have been ignored because the person didn't see it or was busy. It does happen. I'm guilty of it too -- sometimes I just never respond to messages because it's too difficult to compose some messages. If it's a pattern on their part, maybe you can try to talk to them about it in person?

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TomS
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28 Jun 2016, 12:50 pm

Not everyone is an 'Email person'. That is that they don't use that form of communication. Its similar to some who don't like using the phone. It may not therefore mean they don't care. I am not a Email person either, but it doesn't reflect on how I think about the person. I avoid all emails equally.

Iamaparakeet
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29 Jun 2016, 11:28 am

leozelig wrote:

I know how you feel. People can be jerks that way, I wish they weren't. These last few generations have no manners.

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29 Jun 2016, 12:20 pm

arkatron wrote:

Thank you for your response arkatron. I am trying to avoid emailing people more for the time being cause it's really affecting me negatively. I will try to talk to people more in person if I can. I sometimes don't feel like writing to people either, so I am guessing that might be why I'm being ignored.

leozelig
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29 Jun 2016, 12:22 pm

TomS wrote:

I can get that too. I think I am relying on emails more now because I am not home. It'll get easier for me when I go back home, I think. I won't be so focused on it and will have more people to talk to. Thanks TomS for your help.

leozelig
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29 Jun 2016, 12:25 pm

Iamaparakeet wrote:

leozelig wrote:

I know how you feel. People can be jerks that way, I wish they weren't. These last few generations have no manners.

Thanks Iamaparakeet, it really hurts sometimes feeling ignored. I'm just trying not to write as much until I feel better. It helps me to have some support for dealing with this here.

aspieinaz
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03 Jul 2016, 12:15 am

I have two brothers that I live 2,000 miles away from. One emails me almost daily but he never phones me. The other never emails me but phones about twice a month. I guess they each have their preferred method of communication, it's probably the same with your friends, so they may not be purposefully ignoring you.

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