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10 Jul 2016, 6:58 pm

The only thing I have found that have given me a sense of meaning in my life over time has been drawing and painting pictures. I have now started having problems with my back, so I might not be able to do that anymore. I feel so restless, bored and take easily to tears. I think about drinking alcohol quite often, but so far I do it only once a week. giving up is so alluring to me...

So my question is: Those of you who feel a lack of meaning in your life, what do you do? How do you cope? What gets you out of bed in the morning?



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10 Jul 2016, 7:48 pm

Sometimes, this can be a daily challenge to me. I like to read, write and study, and it does not bother me to make food, to clean the house and this little things that we need to do to survive. But I also have a job, I'm a teacher, and sometimes its hard to extract any meaning of this routine. I love my job, but all the world seems to rotate in a different velocity, or, even worse, in a different direction. It's a daily struggle to survive and to act in a world meaningless.
The choice that I made was work with a meaningful thing. Since I have to earn money in a meaninless society, I've chosen a job that deals with education, social transformation etc. It helps me. I use to make physical activities too, and I try to meditate when I have oportunity. Sometimes I feel that the meaning came when your body is ok, it's a kind of simple but functional truth to me. I don't see meaning in my life everyday, but I try to make my life better and sometimes I have great and remarkable days that remember me how nice and beautiful life can be.



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12 Jul 2016, 6:33 am

Thank you for the reply :)

I guess I'll just go with the flow for now. My physical therapist gave me this intense exercise routine, I'll probably give it a go.



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12 Jul 2016, 7:26 am

Norway has so much natural beauty. And Oslo has nice architecture. And probably other cities as well.

I find meaning in all this. Even if it all seems "meaningless." Then I go from there.



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12 Jul 2016, 9:54 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Norway has so much natural beauty. And Oslo has nice architecture. And probably other cities as well.

I find meaning in all this. Even if it all seems "meaningless." Then I go from there.

Well it's good if you find meaning in things like that. Have you been to Norway? I'm not much interested in architecture, but I love beautiful nature.

Wow! That exercise routine was tough! But I got through it more or less. I feel pleased with that, and a little bit more optimistic for now.



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12 Jul 2016, 10:16 am

I've only been to an airport about 60 kms. south of Oslo. I was transiting from one flight to a flight to Mallorca.

It was pretty out there--even though it was cloudy and about 5 Celsius.

Yep...Exercise does gladden the heart!



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12 Jul 2016, 10:45 am

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I've only been to an airport about 60 kms. south of Oslo. I was transiting from one flight to a flight to Mallorca.

Do you remember the name of the airport? "Fornebu", "Rygge" or "Torp" maybe



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12 Jul 2016, 1:41 pm

Thanks for helping me with recall. It was Rygge.



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12 Jul 2016, 2:43 pm

Small world! :)



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12 Jul 2016, 2:51 pm

I was in Norway six years ago for a family reunion. It is so beautiful! I wish that I had gone when I was younger. My older cousins inspired me. I am in constant pain and had given up much. But to see these older cousins full of energy and happiness, even in the winter, encouraged me to try harder. I am glad that I went.



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12 Jul 2016, 3:02 pm

AnneOleson wrote:
I was in Norway six years ago for a family reunion. It is so beautiful! I wish that I had gone when I was younger. My older cousins inspired me. I am in constant pain and had given up much. But to see these older cousins full of energy and happiness, even in the winter, encouraged me to try harder. I am glad that I went.

I think Canada also have beautiful nature! A lot of untouched wilderness.



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12 Jul 2016, 3:35 pm

AnneOleson wrote:
I was in Norway six years ago for a family reunion. It is so beautiful! I wish that I had gone when I was younger. My older cousins inspired me. I am in constant pain and had given up much. But to see these older cousins full of energy and happiness, even in the winter, encouraged me to try harder. I am glad that I went.

Where in Norway did you visit/stay?



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12 Jul 2016, 5:40 pm

Much of Canada is similar to Norway. It is beautiful here too, but not much old architecture. It is a young country.

In Norway I stayed mostly in Lyngdal, but we drove and took the train to Bergen. We took a boat trip up the Sognefjord.



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13 Jul 2016, 6:59 am

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In Norway I stayed mostly in Lyngdal, but we drove and took the train to Bergen. We took a boat trip up the Sognefjord.

I actually had to google Lyngdal, to see where in the country it is. I see it's almost as far south as you can get. Yes, the fjords are beautiful, though I have never seen them :) I live on the other side, closer to Oslo.



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13 Jul 2016, 8:38 am

Ever been to Trondheim, Tromso, or even Hammerfest?



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13 Jul 2016, 9:33 am

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Ever been to Trondheim, Tromso, or even Hammerfest?

No, I haven't. I have mostly been to cities along the cost, streching from Stavanger in the south to the Swedish border in the east. How do you know about these places?