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BirdInFlight
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27 Jul 2016, 7:19 pm

Seriously I've so f*****g HAD it. With the whole world. With all people, not just here on WP, but EVERYONE. I'm so SICK of how really, in truth, NOBODY is willing to listen to anybody else about ANYTHING.

I'm sick of assumptions and then even people telling people THEY are assuming assumptions. I'm sick of what's going on in the UK now which is amounting to slander and libel yet these people think they're the ones that have the right to say the things they're saying to people who are not being HEARD for what's really going on.

That probably sounds as clear as mud but I just can't go into it anymore. I'm SICK of the whole fricking topic and I'm SICK of how simplistically otherwise intelligent people are thinking these days. I can't even talk to my f*****g friend anymore because she drank the f*****g Kool Aid. I'm SICK OF IT.



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28 Jul 2016, 1:12 pm

You will get through it. I deal with s**t on a daily basis and am sort of a bit more on edge on the internet than in real life. For you it may be how people constantly lie in your face. For me it is how people misunderstand me and are unwilling to understand me (well people actually means many autists cuz I sort of get along with NTs although I hate how annoying they are).

Keep your head up high and learn to find ways to deal with things. If you find yourself in hell, keep on going. You can pretty much take anything that is negative and turn it into something positive. Frustration drives me to find alternatives, anger drives me to do better and sadness, well sadness gives me hope for a better day.



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28 Jul 2016, 1:51 pm

If everyone does it, including patently smart and successful people, chances are the costs of listening outweigh its benefits, so there’s no incentive to do it. I suppose they know whom to listen to and whom not to bother to grant that kind of respect—or do they treat their bosses that way, too?


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28 Jul 2016, 4:52 pm

You probably won't listen to me--because you don't like me for some reason.

But I've found your contributions to the Site to be good ones.

Sometimes, you have to let opinions you don't subscribe to just "roll off your chest."

It's inevitable that people will have varying opinions from yours; sometimes, you (and I!) wonder how some people can hold these opinions!

Life shouldn't be like this. You have your animals to give you solace. People can suck sometimes.



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28 Jul 2016, 6:12 pm

I think it's healthy to hate everything every once in awhile, it's probably only a problem hating everything all the time.
And it's healthy to say how much you hate things, it's a nice release from social conventions.


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28 Jul 2016, 6:16 pm

It's okay to hate everyone and everything, it's actually healthy in short bursts.

I'm about to climb a water tower with a rifle, don't give in to the hate.



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28 Jul 2016, 7:05 pm

QuillAlba wrote:
I'm about to climb a water tower with a rifle, don't give in to the hate.


I hope you're not serious.



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28 Jul 2016, 7:44 pm

He's just a Canny Scotsman.



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28 Jul 2016, 7:48 pm

slw1990 wrote:
QuillAlba wrote:
I'm about to climb a water tower with a rifle, don't give in to the hate.


I hope you're not serious.


God no.

I was just painting a picture.

We aren't allowed to shoot people in Scotland.



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28 Jul 2016, 8:56 pm

QuillAlba wrote:
slw1990 wrote:
QuillAlba wrote:
I'm about to climb a water tower with a rifle, don't give in to the hate.


I hope you're not serious.


God no.

I was just painting a picture.

We aren't allowed to shoot people in Scotland.


Oh no, I didn't think you were going to shoot anyone. I was worried you were saying that you were going to hurt yourself. Sorry I misunderstood. :oops:



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28 Jul 2016, 9:16 pm

It's cool.

I could never hurt myself, I know martial arts.

*judo chop*



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28 Jul 2016, 11:22 pm

QuillAlba wrote:
slw1990 wrote:
QuillAlba wrote:
I'm about to climb a water tower with a rifle, don't give in to the hate.


I hope you're not serious.


God no.

I was just painting a picture.

We aren't allowed to shoot people in Scotland.

And I thought the English were trying to invade again.


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28 Jul 2016, 11:43 pm

BirdInFlight wrote:
That probably sounds as clear as mud but I just can't go into it anymore. I'm SICK of the whole fricking topic and I'm SICK of how simplistically otherwise intelligent people are thinking these days. I can't even talk to my f*****g friend anymore because she drank the f*****g Kool Aid. I'm SICK OF IT.

if by any chance you feel like joining the club and blaming it on facebook like i do, this is your chance

seriously. it's facebook


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29 Jul 2016, 4:55 am

Oh wow -- thank you for all the replies and support! When I posted this I realized it was such a huge rant that people will just quietly ignore it, lol. That would have been okay, but to see people replying and relating -- thank you. I'm actually starting to cry now (in a good way, if there is such a thing!). I've been feeling so depressed and angry about so many things both in my own specific life and about world current affairs, I've been so down. Thanks every one of you. :heart:

And to kraftie, we've had our clashes yes! But thank you for such kind words and for saying you find my contributions to the site to be good ones. I struggle to stay positive in my life and I'm not always a ray of sunshine, but I do try to help or advise if there's a thread here where I think I can offer anything. Thank you and everyone else, Aniihya, Spiderpig, btbnnyr, QuillAlba, slw1990, Misslizard, anagram, thanks for this.



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29 Jul 2016, 9:13 am

You're welcome,I didn't do much.Just hope you got a small laugh.


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29 Jul 2016, 12:34 pm

I did get a laugh, yes! :D