Confused

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You know what
I don't think my problem is being alone, it's the feeling of being messed around. Dissapointed. Confused.

I was getting along relatively OK until this guy started to take an interest in me. I really enjoyed his company and I felt like I'd found something really enjoyable that I've not had in years.

Then it didn't progress. That really confused me. I was like, what have I done wrong? It was so good and then so much nothing.

Why would someone seem to like you so much, then not try and keep things going? Why even after you gave up would they then show signs of still liking you?

It's just a really frustrating situation. I feel like mutual friends knew he liked me and thought it was all just a bit of a laugh. I feel really hurt. It was serious to me. I just feel really hurt.

I want to just forget all about this and move on. I don't want someone that flakey. But it still hurts. We've got mutual friends and I don't feel like we can all hang out together anymore.

Now that I've come back down again it hurts worse than it did before.

Feeling of power
Or get bored with us.

I had this girl message me and we messaged slot until I had to go to sleep and I told her and she just said good night and has been ignoring me since

And the lady at work i dont have any clue, sometimes she seems to like me other times she so distant and ignores me,

Yeah, I have a friend (more like an acquaintance) like this who runs hot and cold.
Really can't depend on this person.
So I guess I can be cordial when she communicates with me,
and just not expect too much.

As for me feeling inclined to initiate communication with her?
Not so much.

I think i might just start dressing really frumpy and maybe he'll go away.

You'll look pretty, anyway.

I think he'd say that I run hot and cold. I try and be friendly, but when I don't get him initiating any contact I give up. I still see him from time to time and I don't want to leave things on bad terms, so I will talk to him, but I'm not going to out of my way to text him or bother inviting him anywhere any more.

I wonder if he knows why or just thinks I've dropped him like a hot potato for no reason.

I'm not playing amymore.

Wish some woman would play with me. I'd respond to her asking me out. That guy is stupid