Hypersexuality and aspergers

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I was diagnosed with aspergers at 14 im almost 32 now. Since i was a little kid i was always hypersexual ever since i saw basic instinct with sharon stone. When i was 4 and 5 i had sexual urges but had no idea what they were or why. I also was molested by my father when i was 7 years old which really changed my life. Im curious if there is a relationship with aspergers and Hypersexuality in any way? When i was a teenager i started watching porn and had a very bad addiction and still have an addiction to it. I have had a few girlfriends all of them were pretty much bipolar or autistic. I seem to attract bipolar girls it says that us asperger men end up with women who have bipolar or bpd. I have cheated and been cheated on. I have done random sexual acts with people including drug addicts on the street who were some nasty people because of my hypersexuality i dont really discrimnate or really have a preference with women i can be with a young woman 18 to 20 and the next moment be with a woman 40 to 60. All sizes skinny fat obese. Normally though im attracted to women between the ages of 18 to 25 who are white and have either big breasts or big butts or small breasts with a big butt. Im ashamed and embareassed to say when i see women i objectify them and i dont mean too but the way the media and society portrays women as objects women are human beings people i know what im doing is wrong but i cant help it but want to make love to every woman i see on the street. Im a male nymphomaniac i crave it all the time i want it everyday 24 7 and i dont know or understand why i feel this way its a curse and a burden it has gotten worse as ive gotten older. You can view my old threads when i was in my early 20s you can see how depressed i was and am. I just want to know am i the only one who feels this way ? Or are there others with aspergers like this?

sorry, for me personally, actual sex is completely tied in with relationship. But hey, your sexdrive sounds like it could be creating more problems for you than you want, in terms of health risks and such.... I was wondering if you had considered counselling... I mean, that's basically the difference between hypersexuality and addiction: when it becomes uncontrolled, and finally a problem.

I am not really sure if it has anything to do with asperger's, but I suppose it is quite possible. I've had similar issues, actually. I've had weird problems with sexual behavior since I was around 4 or 5. My mom actually caught me in a closet with a boy at that age, with his pants down. And I had many other weird incidents up until I was around 11.

I don't think I'd necessarily be considered a nymphomaniac, especially considering I am still a virgin despite my strange encounters as a small child. Although, I do tend to think about that kind of thing a lot. I've never cheated on anyone, but I tend to obsess to a near unhealthy level over the person I am with- or if I am single, someone I want to be with. I think out every little thing. And if something is mentioned which does not align with these needs or wants... I can be pretty nasty.

I am bisexual, and I tend to analyze people's sexual potential. I am usually not even attracted to these people, I just like to analyze, I guess. Especially women, although I haven't been in a relationship with a woman before- when it comes to fantasizing over the aesthetic of a body, women are generally my preferred ideal. And similarly, I don't have too many boundaries when it comes to appearance. Although I definitely have limits in regards to being heavy. (35%+ bmi) And I do not tend to think about anyone over 30. Although that is probably really normal considering my age. Lol.

That being said, it really doesn't have a huge effect on my life. I've never really even talked about it before. But I've always wondered why I tend to think in the manner I do. For all I know it could be downright common to think this way, but for the media, and what I see on a regular basis, it seems like females are supposedly less wanton when it comes to sexuality. Whether this is true, I don't know.

There's more I could say, but this reply is way longer than it should be anyway

I am not really sure where I was going with this rambling, but I guess it's good to know you aren't *entirely* alone. Although I'd definitely consider myself a lot less extreme compared to you