I feel Trapped!!

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Why can't my sister understand me & learn about my Asperger? She can make things worse for me! I wish I didn't need her, but I do need her. I needed her credit to get my apartment, her name is on my bills & she is in charge of my trust money. I hate her!! I hate her! I hate her! She is not acting like my sister, she want to control me. Why she so hard on me? Why my mom put her in change? Why my sister doing this to me? I have a credit card now, so I won't need her to get another apartment. She can make me mentally CRAZY! She can make me want to scream, she can make me cry too & want to break my iPad. I know why my mom put her in charge of my trust, but we never got along, she was jealous of me, cuz I was getting more attention when we were kids. In adult years, I wanted to be close, but didn't know how to talk to her, every time me & my mom visits her house, things were very awkward & I kept my mouth shut. Now things are very hard with my sister. Why she make me want to die? I was crying earlier & wanted to die, I'm better now. I worked so hard to get to a better place in my life, I'm mentally, emotionally & physically stronger, my sister can ruin all that. I hate it that nobody on my side, that makes it more scary.

does your sister know about wrong planet?

I don't know, I don't think so.

There are some relationships that are just toxic, or at least unfixable. Because of your situation, you have to have some dealings with your sister. I suggest limiting contact with her to when it's necessary and always be polite and civil at these times. Also be polite and civil with her when together at the homes of relatives. Basically, at those times say hi, and go on to talk to others at the gathering. If you don't like to talk much at such times, just go off to listen to others, and don't spend any time socializing with your sister, since she stresses you out so much.

I get along best with my family when I am not with them, but have to occasionally spend time with them. Being polite and civil, and saying hi and moving on to be with others at family gatherings works best. It helped in dealing with my sister-in-law, and I had some serious reasons to dislike her. My keeping polite and civil kept the peace at all the family gatherings where we were both present. No need in her case anymore, as she passed away a couple of years ago.

Just remember, keep contact to a minimum, and be polite and civil at those times.