I have this problem generally- knowing when it's acceptable or proportionate to make a large purchase. I default to "no." Trouble is, this happens even with things I actually need. Meanwhile, I happily blow money on cheaper things. I remember spending about £200 on books in six months, all the while struggling to use my old laptop that was basically broken. I've had to face it that my instincts about money are wrong. Which isn't unusual, but maybe most people are better than us at guessing what /other people/ would think is reasonable. (Whether those other people are always right is another matter.)
BeaArthur wrote:
A technique for buying yourself desired things without guilt is to pair a partial reward, with a behavior that you want to increase. Let's say you'd like to get more exercise. Make yourself a chart, and every time you exercise for 30 minutes you put down a check mark, or a sticker. When you have earned enough stickers or check marks, go out and buy the item, knowing that you have "earned" it.
I'm trying to do something like this now. Forbidding myself to use the vending machines at work, and putting the money I would have spent there towards an electric piano instead. Which I've wanted for at least ten years.
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