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So my dad is an autistic. I'm autistic. Last week he made a scene at the thrift store and got banned. My boyfriend (yes I'm a fagot) got banned from most parties and places I bring him to. A friend of mine is also permabanned from parties.
Why the hell do people cause scenes that make them gett thrown out of places. Sure you have a melt down. But no matter how messed up you are you alway have some degree of controll. I mean jezaz christ on a cracker. I've been doped up on pcp and still managed to be polite. You have a responsibility to your surroundings no matter your state. Any how how do I deal with people when I can't take them anywhere? I'm getting so sick of this s**t. Any advice.

I'm aspie and I don't get banned from places. I don't have meltdowns because I just internalise my emotions.

"I don't have meltdowns because I just internalise my emotions."

yeah i do the same thing.

but just internalizing emotions has its disadvantages too.

there is something wrong with everything.

feel like such a victim. feel so misunderstood.

quite frankly, precious lil "most people" get on my nerves.

That's probably true.I know right?

I'm not saying everything is bad. There are good things in life. What I mean is, everything in life is a compromise. Even the good things.

Meltdowns have fairly often landed me in trouble too but I haven't actively been banished from anywhere... I try to stay more or less stable when I go places... but have certainly had my share of difficulties.

To the OP, no shame in having a bf - I have one too!

I get banned from a lot of places... and I don't get banned from a lot more places. Try and think of the positive, and try to support your friend to act better, being diplomatic about it.