Just had a meltdown and the police were involved.

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24 Nov 2017, 10:32 am

Fortunately, my lawyer was able to get them to go away. But if they really want me to be calm, well obviously, they need to do their job and make sure my son is safe, which they have failed miserably on. Every part of me wants to die. I need hugs, and I need my son to be safe.


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24 Nov 2017, 11:32 am

Big hugs. And best wishes.



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24 Nov 2017, 11:35 am

Big dragon hugs. I'm so sorry you and your son have to go through this.


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24 Nov 2017, 12:30 pm

Thank you guys, massive hugs back!

Does anyone by any chance have precedents of cases where the children were unjustly taken from the mother, the mother went crazy as a result, but that ended up having a happy ending for both mother and child?


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24 Nov 2017, 12:47 pm

I don't know what to suggest but am sending you a virtual hug. Are there any support groups for women struggling to get kids back?



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24 Nov 2017, 12:55 pm

Virtual hugs back! I've been trying find a support group for women in this situation, and if anyone knows of any that would be amazing. I am part of a couple of Facebook groups for parents whose children were unfairly taken, but these groups are all in Dutch, which isn't my first language, which makes it more difficult for me to express myself fully as well as to find the right information. I've lived here for 6 years, and my Dutch is useful except for technical legal and financial stuff. Plus there's often parents there who really do need to be looked at under the microscope, and it's often hard to tell who is who.


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