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Shakti
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29 Nov 2017, 8:46 am

There's nothing harder than your reality being that you've been gaslit by your ex and his family, and only getting to see your son 2 hours every 2 weeks with no end in sight as a result. Handing your son back to the very people who abused you and who as a result you know are capable of abusing him is the hardest part. It was emotional as hell today.


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29 Nov 2017, 9:05 am

Big dragon hugs :heart: I'm so sorry you have to go through this.


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29 Nov 2017, 9:32 am

How's it going getting to a more satisfactory arrangement? Can you find people to help you with custody?
I can actually do virtual hugs. :)
Hopefully everything will change and work out for you soon.


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29 Nov 2017, 10:20 am

*HUGS*


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29 Nov 2017, 10:26 am

You're a very bright person with lots of knowledge.

I hope a big Wolfman Hug will help a little.



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29 Nov 2017, 12:04 pm

*Hugs* I hope you feel better today Shakti.



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29 Nov 2017, 12:53 pm

Thank you all. I think the rest of today is a write-off though, it's impossible to not be emotional. I told a friend I would go swimming with her in just over an hour, I'm not sure if I'll be able to go out without feeling raw and easily triggered though.


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29 Nov 2017, 12:56 pm

Swimming has been known to calm me down greatly. And I'm not even that great of a swimmer.



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29 Nov 2017, 3:11 pm

(hug)(hug)(hug)


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29 Nov 2017, 7:38 pm

I am sorry to hear that you are going through this, and I hope it all works out for you.

I am not sure how keen you'll be accepting a hug from an alien hunter , but sending a virtual hug your way nonetheless.

*hug*



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30 Nov 2017, 6:13 am

I had a really intense swim and pilates workout this morning, it's exactly what I needed! :D

By the way, I'm creating a Facebook group about taking an empowered approach to ASD and treating it naturally. If anyone wants to join PM me. I'm keeping it a secret group, and I don't want most people in my life knowing I have ASD.


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30 Nov 2017, 10:14 am

Shakti wrote:
I had a really intense swim and pilates workout this morning, it's exactly what I needed! :D


Glad to hear it helped! :)