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No one cares on this website, every post I make even if its about suicide i get views but no replies. I wanna get off this useless site. Don't wanna waste my time on a site where people don't care if someone wants to harm themselves

Hi BaneBear, I just read your other post about hurting yourself. I didn't reply because I didn't know what to say. I've hurt myself and wanted to die in the past too. I hope the feeling has gone away a bit for you now. The only advice I could give is to tell yourself that you'll do it tomorrow instead of today. Keep putting it off for a day and wait for your mood to improve.

Do you have family you can talk to?

That's not true dude , there are a lot of members here who care , put the shoe on the other foot , would you reply to someone who is fragile and suicidal if you are suicidal yourself. I know for me it is difficult to offer advise to someone who is suicidal because I am too scared about making things worse - it's not personal against the person and it doesn't mean I don't care.

Perhaps you could consider that it is very likely that many members don't respond because they are worried about saying the wrong thing, and upsetting you when you are already upset?

Another reason that some members may be reluctant to post on your threads is that it takes a while for the longer term members to get to know a relatively new one, and most new members initially receive fewer responses than long established members. You have been around for a while, though have made relatively few posts over those years, so you will still feel "new" to many members.

It's your choice whether to stay or go, though why not stay and see where it goes? If you decide you would rather not be here, all the mods can do is put a voluntary ban on your account, but that would stop you coming back if you change your mind in the future.

There are other autism forums so have a look at them perhaps, you can be a member of them as well as WP. There are also support forums that are specifically focused on self-harm and suicidal feelings (whereas WP is mainly focused on autism) which may also be worth a look. I think there may be some links to these on Psychology Today's website, though Google may find others for you too, if you are interested. I hope you do find some helpful support and sorry to hear you are having a rough time at the moment.

I have replied to your posts before.

You live in Massachusetts, I believe. I also believe you were having problems with your job and with getting dates.

You have been around at least two years.

Lots of people on here want to talk to you and help you out man, shoot me a PM anytime.

I've been really busy lately and didn't see your posts. I've been working and then coming home and going to bed because I'm so exhausted.

I'm sorry you feel we are ignoring you, but we really aren't. Part of the issue is that a lot of people are leaving, and there's less traffic then there was before. Also, some people may view your thread but not know how to respond.

To be honest, I don't know how to respond either, but I'm responding to say that I do care about what happens to you even though I don't know you and haven't met you. I think most of us have experienced a great deal of pain in our life, and thought death might be better then life.

Why don't you describe what's going on in your life so we can perhaps lend some support and sympathy beyond your feeling that you'd rather not live? Why? What's going on?