I think my uncle has some sort of personality disorder...

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17 Mar 2018, 3:37 pm

Things were going great with my uncle.... When I pretended to agree with everything he says that is. This morning I pointed out something negative about him and he litterally started screaming and yelling at me and took off down the road walking. He does this every single time and his daughter told me today you just have to grin and nod and act like you agree with him or he does this every single time. He's even before threatened suicide when someone doesn't agree with him and even told my husband afterwards he did it just to get his way! He's been really unfair with us with the bills and he thinks he can use my car whenever he wants and even has had us cancel our appointments because of course his stuff is more important. Many of my family members don't like him but he manages to talk us back into living with him again when all me and my husband want is our freedom again.


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17 Mar 2018, 7:14 pm

Now this is making me angry, he just took off in my car after the argument and he's still not home... I don't like this if he doesn't come home tonight or even tomorrow I could get mean and tell the cops he stole my car but my uncle knows I wouldn't do that, but he needs to think! Just yesterday I had to take my husband to the hospital suddenly and it's dangerous for us to be stranded at home like this!


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17 Mar 2018, 8:35 pm

Please, for your own sanity, get out.
You will do much better without such a person in your life.


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17 Mar 2018, 8:59 pm

Both of you need to go to the next larger town with a shelter and stay there. Your family takes advantage of you all the time.



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18 Mar 2018, 2:57 pm

And now their refusing to do a shelter verification for us to get more food stamps because it would affect my uncle's. I am spending almost all my money on bills now but we are only getting 172 in food stamps for two people because all our rent and bills are being claimed under my uncle's case, DHS thinks we are living rent and bills free. And my family is complaining now we are using some of my uncle's food stamps saying we are "wasting" our food and money... So they are expecting for two people to completely supporting themselves on 100 dollars after paying half the rent and utilities plus the full car insurance and telephone/internet and only 172 dollars in food?


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19 Mar 2018, 8:59 pm

Angnix wrote:
And now their refusing to do a shelter verification for us to get more food stamps because it would affect my uncle's. I am spending almost all my money on bills now but we are only getting 172 in food stamps for two people because all our rent and bills are being claimed under my uncle's case, DHS thinks we are living rent and bills free. And my family is complaining now we are using some of my uncle's food stamps saying we are "wasting" our food and money... So they are expecting for two people to completely supporting themselves on 100 dollars after paying half the rent and utilities plus the full car insurance and telephone/internet and only 172 dollars in food?

You go right ahead and report the fraud on your uncle's part. Your rent+utilities is income he is not reporting, and it is short-changing you. I hope you pay these expenses by check, so you have proof you paid and he accepted payment. If not, start. Or demand a receipt every time.

I also have to observe that every time you get involved in some sort of business arrangement with your extended family, you are getting screwed. This is probably part their fault and part yours - your part being you are easily taken advantage of. You could stop being a victim today, if you like.


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19 Mar 2018, 9:10 pm

He has been doing free mechanic work on my car though... Anyway they told us to just move away and my husband really wants to so that maybe our next course of action. I'm going to apply to jobs further away in hopes I get one so we could find moving a bit easier.


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