I'm sexually frustrated, too!

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As in, I'm frustrated at the opposite sex on WP for going on AND ON about how unfair their lives are because they're men and women are horrible. Never before in my whole life have I hated being FEMALE. Never before in my life have I hated being a FEMALE ASPIE. I guess everyone else is right, women are to blame for everything and it's our own fault we get raped or murdered by men because WE'RE the ones who drove them to commit such crimes because WE'RE the evil ones, not them!! I guess I should go out and murder men since I'm so evil and the fault of their suffering. Oh wait, that makes no sense. It's not supposed to because because I'm female!! And a demon HA HA HA!! !

Fine then, okay I get it. I'll get married to five husbands and have fifty-eight children and do nothing but cook and clean and be an obedient slave. I'll be hubby's little object forever.

My brain has turned to jello. Crack open my skull and grab a spoon and some whipped cream, everyone.

I’ve never felt that women are to blame for anything.

They are hard to understand sometimes—but my task is to at least give it the “good college try.”

I definitely know what you're talking about, but I honestly doubt bringing it up will change anything... people who just wanna whine and complain and blame everything that's wrong in their lives on others without even considering if there could be something wrong with them will do so even if someone points it out. In fact, I wouldn't be suprised if someone used this post of yours as an examble of how horrible women are...

Sorry you are feeling that way. There is a group of men here who have a fixed delusion that the world is biased against them, and it keeps them from moving ahead in a healthy way. You don't have to buy into it, though.

^ Do you think this is an autistic thing , a man thing or a bit of both ?

Their comments ignore that gender roles have changed, and fewer people are adhering to the "male breadwinner-female housewife" system. And if their comments were to be true, how would things work in same-sex relationships?

While I still try to make the first move, I acknowledge that more and more women are taking the initiative as well.

I don't think it's either. I think forums like this one often have a few "regulars" who are using the system to bemoan their miserable conditions, in an addictive way, instead of living life. If I'm honest, there are some women who do something similar here. But not only here - other forums too. While a great source of information and even support, any internet clearinghouse has a tendency to collect these digital addicts.

^You could be right , but it definitely seems like a predominately more male trait here

Well, I'm doubly frustrated, or triply, depending on how you count. Frustrated because I can't get sex or romantic relationships, and frustrated because any attempt to talk about it invariably results in having my words systematically twisted into a diatribe against women, and then being duly condemned for the imaginary diatribe, together with the medium where the discussion is taking place. Apparently, there can't ever be room for both genders to just discuss these topics, as opposed to complaining or trying to get the discussion shut down forever.

^ perhaps you should start your own Haven thread

I’ve never called for that nor seen anyone here call for that. There a thread discussing men who aren’t on this forum who call for it.

Yes, I’ve found keeping a diary helpful myself.

You know that reply sorta proves my point, don't you? I thought it'd be helpful for the OP to remember the other side of the coin. I don't think what I said in my previous post warrants its own thread, so I wouldn't otherwise have written it.

I don't think echo chambers are helpful with anything, but if people want them, maybe a new forum should be made somewhere, in which posts with any content other than expressing enthusiastic agreement with every single point the OP made are not tolerated.

Anyway, it wasn't my intent to offend the OP, so if I'm unwanted in this thread, I'll leave it alone.

Please do.

If this wasn't the Haven I wouldn't have said anything. I don't know if you offended the OP or not , I would wait for a reply from them before you bugger off.

Odd, I thought the last few days was really shining a spotlight on the problem being violent "incel," men, not women.