I associated a girl with hope

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I met this girl off Tinder and all of the girls who I met on Tinder. She was the best one, her personality was the closes to mine and she is a kind heart. I get the vibe from her that she would understand my Asperger syndrome like how my mom understands my dad. We kept messaging after we meet up which is a rare thing to happen and there were talks of meeting again but she became distant out of nowhere. She apologized and said it was because of school/work. Which make sense because her many hours of work was a thing ever since the beginning and add school to the mix. We kept messaging but then the messages became one sided (aka my side) and I just stopped. This bothers me because I thought she was going to be the one to end my loneliness. Something in me tells me not to give up but it seems hopeless to keep trying. I get sad when I think about it because again I thought she was going to be the one to end my loneliness.

Don't give up--you're still so young! That kind of thing has happened a lot to me, and it is frustrating and confusing. But, I guess it just happens. I think part of relationship success is being in the right frame of mind, and in the right place at the right time to meet someone. It will happen in time.

I agree ... way too young to give up! This sort of thing happens to everyone. Take you mind off her for a while by being distracted by just about anything. In time, you'll be ready to try again.

You might also want to use a different app or two for dating. I hear questionable things about Tinder.